• @Lost_My_Mind
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    -486 hours ago

    I’d love to know your version of “just barely” is you have two adults working full time in a 2 person household.

    Maybe your mortgage is far higher then I’m imagining.

    I live in an apartment, but it’s overpriced, and it’s just me. This world is designed to be a 2 person household.

    So I have to imagine you’re living beyond your means. I’m living beyond my means too, but I also don’t have a decent wage either. So living at all is living beyond my means.

    You should add up your whole house income, divide that number by 4, and THAT number should be what your mortgage shouldn’t be higher than.

    I suspect your mortgage is probably much higher than that number.

    Either that or we have different definitions of “just getting by”.

    • @Anamnesis
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      33 hours ago

      😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆

    • @dariusj18
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      306 hours ago

      That formula hasn’t been valid for like, 20 years?

      • KaRunChiy
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        206 hours ago

        Yeah that inital response gave me the impression that they live in a completely different situation than what I, and most of the people I know IRL are experiencing. Typical rent prices out here are 120% the sum of 2 weeks of minimum wage pay, not including utilities

    • KaRunChiy
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      196 hours ago

      ≥ Mortgage You lost me there, renting is much more expensive than paying a mortgage off

      • @[email protected]
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        33 hours ago

        My rent is around 1800 euro, if I’d buy this apartment, my mortgage would be around 3000. That’s for more than half a mil. After 30 years I’d have paid off more than a mil.

        The company I rent from just got their financing much earlier, and in very big quantities. (Eg it has 100s to 1000s apartments and houses.)

        Every year I make more money, every year the place I live is more difficult to buy.

      • @Lost_My_Mind
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        -205 hours ago

        Depends where and how you live. My rent is $800 a month, but some mortgages are thousands of dollars.

        • @[email protected]
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          215 hours ago

          Where the fuck do you live with $800 rent? Middle of Montana? Dead center of Death Valley? Gtfo.

          • KaRunChiy
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            115 hours ago

            Ikr, just saw an ad for a nearby apartment wanting 1,200$ a month for a studio apartment… in Nebraska

          • @Lost_My_Mind
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            -33 hours ago

            Lakewood, a suburb of Cleveland. It’s overpriced as hell.

              • @Lost_My_Mind
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                12 hours ago

                Yeah, but I’m not in your economy. Average wage around here is lkke $10/hr.

            • @[email protected]
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              12 hours ago

              You pay $500 less than the average American for rent. I think you may be lacking the perspective necessary to engage productively with this topic.

              • @Lost_My_Mind
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                12 hours ago

                My rent is $500 less than whatever metric you’re using, but our local ecconomy is also lowers than yours.

                Average wage here is 10/hr for a factory job. I’ve heard some places like Seattle make $20/hr just working at starbucks.

                And keep in mind my rent is basically 1 room.

        • KaRunChiy
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          15 hours ago

          Again, the “how you live” thing again, in your opinion, what is the “correct” way to live?