There’s definitely some additional nuance (like a pronouns in bio/username situation) but this should cover the broad needs of anyone who is approaching this with good faith.

  • @[email protected]OP
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    261 day ago

    make he/him gender neutral

    ???why not just use they/them like we have been for centuries lmao. your plan would cause so many problems.

      • @[email protected]
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        51 day ago

        Just a quick heads up but, linguistically speaking, you are mistaken with what you said about “they/them”.

        • @danc4498
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          -71 day ago

          Maybe you misunderstood my actual comment. I’m saying we should use he/him as the general neutral pronoun. That Tom Scott video is saying the same thing as me, just with a different solution.

          You said my plan would cause “so many problems”, and outside of the obvious transition problem, I still see no problems.

          • @[email protected]OP
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            151 day ago
            • problem 1: why are you choosing he/him to be gender neutral and not she/her? it gives the impression that grammatical maleness is default and you are going to get pushback for that, whether your intentions are sexist or not.
            • problem 2: making he/him gender neutral strips the identity from male and masculine people.
            • problem 3: you’re suggesting a massive overhaul when there’s literally already a word in place.

            and NO they/them doesn’t “refer to multiple.” the tom scott video abjectly disagrees with you on that, so don’t twist things. even Shakespeare used they/them to refer to singular people.

            honestly this conversation is pointless and boring so i’ll end it here.

            • @BreadOven
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              51 day ago

              I agree. Also thanks for letting the video.

              • @[email protected]
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                91 day ago

                “If someone dropped their wallet would you tell them?”

                Perfectly normal and already understood.