Was banned on a totally different instance and community despite never commenting in the community.

I suspect I was banned for questioning the narrative in this thread yesterday:

https://lemmy.world/pictrs/image/be066e3c-b1ae-416c-bc71-248d3056c6ed.jpeg?thumbnail=1500&format=webp

I am a trans person and have no issue with trans people expressing who they are. The mods and admins of blahaj frequently use Gatekeeping as a false umbrella ban for any user they want to get rid of. This is also discussed in yesterday’s thread by some users.

The owners of that 196 space have proven they are unable to let sleeping dogs lie and are hellbent on tearing down all other instances in a tribal war, and have decided to start lurking in other spaces and preemptively banning people like reddit mods.

This is not fair moderation practices, it’s a petty tit for tat because abuse in their community was called out yesterday.

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    If my parents and grandparents can understand it or at least learn to accept it, so can your average person. We’re being true to ourselves. We’re living our lives the way we see fit. We are alive, at least for now, and I will stand my ground because I’m not a pussy-ass bitch who’d sell out my friends and family to make a bigot happy.

    If you want to hurt yourself to make the cis people happy, then go knock yourself out, I suppose. However I’d appreciate it if you’d do it a nice, safe distance away from my family, friends and I; which means queer safe spaces don’t seem like your speed.

    Me? I’ll be encouraging my friends and family to thrive and be the people they’ve always wanted to be.

    I’m sorry you’ve never had anyone to give you that strength.

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      Ok, you aren’t using Neopronouns so that really isn’t relevant. Your pronouns say she/they

      Would your grandparents respond positively to you trying to convince them you are a dog?

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        I wore my opossum tail during family Christmas. No one cared. I wore my collar. No one cared. I wore my furry stuff and carried my plushies around and despite being 30yrs old, you know, the age well beyond the point where you’re supposed to have grown out of that stuff, no one cared. This was in Texas.

        You know why I wore my opossum tail and collar? Because at the end of the day I feel like I have an opossum’s soul and it honestly feels really weird not to wear them. I’m fucking skrunkly and constantly worried about everything. Did I make a big deal out of it though? No. I just lived my life the way I wanted to and no one had a problem with it. The reason I don’t use neopronouns has nothing to do with their validity, I simply find them awkward. However I will not tell someone they are invalid or they shouldn’t use them themselves.

        Oh, and before you try to tell me I’m invalid, I’m AMAB. I’m trans in more than one way.

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          You know why I wore my opossum tail and collar? Because at the end of the day I feel like I have an opossum’s soul and it honestly feels really weird not to wear them.

          Jesus fucking Christ.

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              these mfs coopting the left is why conservatism is on the rise

              Nah, they’re minor on a society-wide scale, like lesbian separatists in the 60s. We have bigger, deeper problems causing rising conservatism, unfortunately.

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            Sorry, I had to take a screenshot of your original response because I don’t think I’ve ever made someone this mad just by being right.

            Also, why does it matter to you how I express myself? Again, grow up.

            How old are you if you don’t mind?

            I literally just told you that I’m 30, lmao.

            And yeah, I’ve experienced a lot of prejudice too. I’ve had to deal with decades of emotional abuse from people I considered to be friends just for being trans not even because I’m therian, just because I’m trans. That’s why I don’t give a shit anymore. That’s why I decided to grow a spine and live my life the way I desire; and that’s why I’ll encourage my friends and family to do the same. If you don’t like it, that’s your problem, not mine.

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              I literally don’t care what you do , you showed up here trying to fight me

              I said trans people aren’t dogs or dragons, that’s not what being trans is.

              And I was banned for saying it by a space I didn’t use, like the shitty reddit automod does.

              And this is the place where people post about this kind of stuff.

              You came here and started attacking me because you get dopamine for being tribalistic