I’m beginning to accept that I may never be in a relationship again. There are life expectations I have for myself, some admittedly selfish, but really, the idea of having to deal with another grownup who is as obstinate as I am has left me disillusioned about relationships. But I want to have kids. I want to be a father. For women, its fairy easy, go to a sperm bank, pick your choice, get the procedure done and you are on your way. What is the process for dudes? I believe its going to involve a surrogate, but where does one get a donor egg and what not? I am not looking to have a relationship with an egg donor or the surrogate, just me and the kids.

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    8 days ago

    Yeah OP is giving incel and should get therapy rather than a kid lol

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      8 days ago

      I doubt you’d say something so repulsive about a single woman that wanted kids 🙄

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        Conservatives say that all the time. They blame them for overutilizing food stamps in particular. Campaigning against single mothers keeping their children away from their fathers been one of their main arguments against social services for literal decades.

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        I would if they framed it like this. I find all genders of incels equally repulsive though admittedly I do think life is more unjust thus my judgement is more lenient.

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          damn, you’re giving major incel vibes, projection much?