Eh, life can change wife, life can change husband. Sometimes it’s great for a couple years, then not. Doesn’t mean wife not good. Just not the best fit anymore.
Nono sure. I wasn’t referring to a specific example. I just see relationship as sth that needs growth and change and not as a never-changing system that has to be kept the same at all costs.
And yeah change can also lead to speration, which also doesn’t have to be bad. Like in your example.
It’s because the thread starts out all negative, everyone contributes with their negativity, if you come in and say that your wife’s great and y’all are best friends, everyone jumps down your throat and gets nasty. Who’d sign up for that?
Edit: case in point right here lmao. Sorry y’all have such bad relationships with your wives.
Wife good. Marriage awesome.
If wife isn’t good then wife shouldn’t have been wife in the first place.
My wife’s dope.
Eh, life can change wife, life can change husband. Sometimes it’s great for a couple years, then not. Doesn’t mean wife not good. Just not the best fit anymore.
Why we talk like cavemen?
Me don’t know. Boobs?
Yes.
Why use many word, when few word do trick.
Trick is what whore do for money
Or candy!
And you should change if you wanna keep your marriage alive. I always wonder why society considers change to be something bad.
It’s dead, Jim.
We diverged in different directions and split up in friendship. There’s no shame in ending something before both hate eachother.
Nono sure. I wasn’t referring to a specific example. I just see relationship as sth that needs growth and change and not as a never-changing system that has to be kept the same at all costs.
And yeah change can also lead to speration, which also doesn’t have to be bad. Like in your example.
I mean don’t get me wrong, I’m still suffering. But it was the best decision given the situation.
<3
All relationships require work to keep alive, whether it be romantic, platonic, or familial.
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Totally! Was just trying to say that change is necessary either way. We can not expect life to be the same forever.
You are wise for a perogi.
i like the saying that your partner should also be your best friend
If ur partner is not your best friend then why are they your partner?
But I already have a best friend
You can have more than one
Although I agree in practice, the pedant in me thinks that best is exclusive to a singular entity.
You can like two people just as much, but for different reasons.
Suit yourself but life’s definitely more fun when you open yourself up to friends
I did say I agree in practice
I’m legitimately surprised to find a comment thread on Lemmy with people in a healthy long term relationship, what a find
It’s because the thread starts out all negative, everyone contributes with their negativity, if you come in and say that your wife’s great and y’all are best friends, everyone jumps down your throat and gets nasty. Who’d sign up for that?
Edit: case in point right here lmao. Sorry y’all have such bad relationships with your wives.
Honestly I think a large portion of lemmings are single and bitter and it shows. This one is a nice change
Are we lemmings ? I assumed we were lemurs
This comment is the only negative thing I have seen in the whole thread besides the wierdo right on the bottom
Work! Glory to your houuuuuuse!
Husband good, marriage awesome. 12 years this month ❤️
69 upvotes. Nice.