• dudeface
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    20 hours ago

    My mother gets vague info from me now because anything I share immediately get told to all her friends and the rest of the family

    • Elting@piefed.social
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      15 hours ago

      I had cancer as a minor and specifically told my mom not to post about it on facebook and keep it within the family. Inside a week half the county knew and people were showing up to give us food. I don’t think she realizes that I would never tell her about any diagnoses of mine in the future or indeed is even capable of understanding how she broke my trust.

    • A_Random_Idiot
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      15 hours ago

      God I fucking hate that.

      its suck a sickening unhealthy dynamic. The entire family does not need to be informed of every little thing happening/going on. If its something they need to know, I’ll tell them myself.

      Just keep your fucking cunt mouth closed and stop crowing secrets like a goddamn rooster, Mother.