Having coffee, smth sweet and a followup cigarrete in the morning makes me happy to be awake. Or kiss goodbyes and hellos.

  • @cynar
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    98 months ago

    I sadly lost my nan, unexpectedly a while back. It’s a significant comfort to know some of the last words I spoke to her were “I love you both”.

    • @[email protected]OP
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      68 months ago

      So sorry for your loss, i’ve had terrible luck with last interactions with my grandparents before their deaths.

      • @cynar
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        68 months ago

        It’s one of those things. I’ve managed to purge the negative feelings now.

        Ironically, I don’t really remember our last interaction, in person. It was pleasant and enjoyable, but so normal as to just blur with other visits. That amuses me quite a bit (so many nice visits I can no longer pick 1 out). My habit of saying “I love you” at the end of every visit helps a lot.