• arthurpizza
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    4311 months ago

    If a gift of money comes with requirements on how to spend that money, it’s not a gift.

      • @[email protected]
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        11 months ago

        Yes, gift cards are gift cards. Gift cards, however, are not money as you can’t spend them anywhere.

        • Pyro
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          -111 months ago

          Gift cards are gift cards.

          Yes, but that wasn’t the question. Gift cards are to gifts like butterflies are to butter.

          • LemmyInRedditSux
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            311 months ago

            You can buy anything you want with a gift card. Whatever you choose to buy, that’s your gift. But no matter what you do, you’re never gonna get butter out of a butterfly.

            • Pyro
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              You can buy anything you want with a gift card.

              Only if that thing you want is sold by the shop the gift card is for. That’s the condition.

              The original point (above my comment) was that the presence of the condition makes it not a gift.

              I will literally buy you a $200 Roblox gift card if you can directly buy a Keychron Q6 with it.

              • @Deuces
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                211 months ago

                By that logic a Lego set isn’t a gift because the gift giver stipulated that the money could only be spent on a Lego set

                • Pyro
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                  011 months ago

                  the money

                  What money? There is only a Lego set in your example. A Lego set does not pretend to be money like a gift card does.

                  If you were to pick one thing to take with you to a desert island for 6 months I guarantee a Lego set would be higher on your list than money. This is because Lego itself has value, at least to those who enjoy using it. Money does not have any intrinsic value outside trade. It is a means to an end. A way to acquire something of actual value to you.

      • arthurpizza
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        411 months ago

        You can sell gift cards or regift them.

    • Tier 1 Build-A-Bear 🧸
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      -411 months ago

      Maybe I don’t feel like enabling a total stranger? Maybe I want to make sure I’m helping a problem with food and clothes rather than making it worse? Call it whatever the fuck you want Imma keep doing it and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it

      • Echo Dot
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        2311 months ago

        The best thing you can do is donate to food banks. Either with actual donations of food or money donations.

        It’s actually a good idea to give food banks money because they get no end of cookies but no fruit or vegetable.

        I volunteered a food bank occasionally and we have enough pasta to survive the apocalypse. And every week people bring us even more bloody pasta. We could probably give it people to build as a shelter for themselves and still have more than we knew what to do with.

        Also we have 40 bags of kale. Which I don’t think anyone wants to eat even if they are starving.

        • Kit Sorens
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          511 months ago

          Not to mention money to the homeless is subject to sales tax. Your dollar goes farther in non-profits.

            • 𝔼𝕩𝕦𝕤𝕚𝕒
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              211 months ago

              Missing out on profits. Extra 5-10% on top in “sales tax” is the greatest marketing a dealer could ask for.

            • @helpImTrappedOnline
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              111 months ago

              Smart dealers know they can shake the police of their back, but the IRS? Hell no, once they’re after you - game over.

        • @scottywh
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          211 months ago

          I’ll eat the kale.

      • Flying Squid
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        611 months ago

        Then don’t give them money directly. You can’t control how they spend it.

        • @[email protected]
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          311 months ago

          But if you just offer to buy them food, then people on the internet will complain at you denying them agency.

          • Flying Squid
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            111 months ago

            Can you provide an example of such complaining?

            • @Deuces
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              111 months ago

              There’s people in this thread saying a gift card isn’t a gift because it has stipulations on how it can be spent. They’re not being super aggressive about it, but still. If you want to find that comment chain check my last post.

              • Flying Squid
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                211 months ago

                Okay? That has absolutely nothing to do with buying someone food.

            • @[email protected]
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              011 months ago

              I mentioned it on a Discord server and got such responses as “Oh shut up. Let people have agency.” and “It’s just restricting more control from societies most vulnerable group.”

              • Flying Squid
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                211 months ago

                So a couple of people on a Discord serve said that and you extrapolate it to the entire internet?

                Let’s take an informal poll. Who here would criticize someone who offered to buy a homeless person a meal? Please speak up.