• Seraph
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    1131 year ago

    thinking about making a move

    If you’re wondering where he went wrong… Make your intentions clear my dudes!

    • @sheogorath
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      691 year ago

      This, when I got out of the you need to chase phase I started having much more success on the dating aspect of social life.

      Shooting your shot early works best, if they’re not interested no harm no foul. I’ve even had one become my wingman basically and introduced me to her friends. And let me tell you my dudes, girls make the best wingman.

    • @MindSkipperBro12
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      441 year ago

      Day One

      “Wanna go out on a date?”

      “Who are you?…”

    • @[email protected]
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      141 year ago

      After a month of hanging out and talking constantly lol

      Even if she thought he was straight and was interested, she would have been totally in the right to write him off as not interested and move on

    • @ThatWeirdGuy1001
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      141 year ago

      This is what creates so many incels tbh

      Guys are always told to “be her friend first” and then all they see is the guys who aren’t doing that getting all the girls and they don’t understand why doing it the “right way” (the way they were told) isn’t working.

      • Franzia
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        131 year ago

        Being her friend works if you want to build social skills and comfort with women. If you go be “friends” with a woman only because you want to get with her, when the truth comes out its over!

        I think giving men blanket “be soft and friendly” advice is bad. Not all men are the same and everyone can take their own strategy to dating!