• @Son_of_dad
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    Utterly unapologetic to the point of blaming society for “failing her” instead of owning up to her shitty parenting

    • @[email protected]
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      I mean, society did fail her but that doesn’t mean she shouldn’t take responsibility for what happened. She left her gun in her purse, unsecured, around a six year old with serious mental health issues. She is absolutely liable. That doesn’t mean that she is the only one to blame, tho

      • @Son_of_dad
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        2810 months ago

        Society has failed most of us, we’re still responsible for our actions. She had an unsecured gun with no lockbox or trigger lock, this is on her.

        • @[email protected]
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          Oh, I agree. She had a gun and thus a responsibility to keep it out of her kids hands. I read a bit more about it, and apparently she discharged the weapon a short while prior because she believed that her boyfriend was cheating on her. Yikes!

          Doesn’t change that we can’t recognize that this likely stems from many societal problems

          I think the world would be better, if we accept BOTH personal responsibility, and the responsibility that we have to others living in the society we all share. It probably won’t happen any time soon, but I can try to spread the idea

          • @afraid_of_zombies
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            410 months ago

            Just ban guns and call it a day. We can deal with the occasional crazy person with a knife.

              • @StorminNorman
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                910 months ago

                Britain’s knife crime rate is lower than the US’ knife crime rate.

                • @maryjayjay
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                  Yep, the US rate of knife crime is more than 7 times higher than the UK, and that is per capita

                  • shastaxc
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                    Not sure what point you’re trying to make. Comparisons should be done per capita. Otherwise, it’s useless.

          • @pinkdrunkenelephants
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            210 months ago

            That kid didn’t have mental health problems. He was just imitating how he watched his hopelessly retarded, selfish, dysfunctional and immature parents act.

            • @[email protected]
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              I would argue that one path to having mental illness is neglect. It could also be that he was exposed to drugs (or chemicals) in utero (which can also effect brain development).

              There’s a book I can recommend, but it’s a bit controversial.

      • @afraid_of_zombies
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        If she was white would the verdict have been exactly the same, yes or no?

        • @jpreston2005
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          810 months ago

          depends on the flavor. white trash vs. rich and pretty? white trash gets same sentence, rich and pretty gets a talk show.

          • @afraid_of_zombies
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            Being an attractive white woman is like playing the game of life in tutorial mode levels of difficult. Like what is the very worst thing that can happen to you, Starbucks gets your special latte pink drink order incorrect?

          • @[email protected]
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            410 months ago

            It’s not race baiting, it’s asking a legitimate question.

            It is hard to imagine a judge separating a mother from her child for two years. The foster system isn’t known for improving an at risk child’s mental health.

          • @afraid_of_zombies
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            110 months ago

            If she was white would the verdict have been exactly the same, yes or no?

    • 【J】【u】【s】【t】【Z】
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      Yeah but like she probably had shitty parents too. You’re faulting her for what, not breaking a generational cycle she doesn’t even realize she’s part of?