We’re closing this thread. Everything that could be said has been said. Thank you


Original Post:
Today, we want to inform everyone that we have decided to defederate from https://exploding-heads.com/. We understand that defederating should always be a last resort, and individuals can certainly block communities. However, blocking alone does not prevent potential harm to vulnerable communities.

After carefully reviewing the instance, reported posts, and multiple comments from the community, we have concluded that exploding-heads is not adhering to the Lemmy or Citizen Code of Conduct. Therefore, we cannot, in good faith, continue to federate with an instance that consistently promotes hate, racism, and bullying.

Examples:
https://lemmy.world/post/577526 - Community Moderator Harassment
https://exploding-heads.com/post/92194 - Systemadmin Post
https://exploding-heads.com/post/90780 - Systemadmin Post
https://exploding-heads.com/post/91488 - Systemadmin Post
https://exploding-heads.com/post/93725 - Community Moderator Post

Again, deciding to defederate from an instance is not taken lightly. In the future, we will continue to review instances on a case-by-case bases.

As for our community, please refrain from posting or commenting with hateful words as well. Arguing back and calling people names is not the solution. The best course of action is to report the posts or comments violating our server rules.

Lemmy Code of Conduct
https://join-lemmy.org/docs/code_of_conduct.html
Citizen Code of Conduct https://github.com/stumpsyn/policies/blob/master/citizen_code_of_conduct.md

“We are committed to providing a friendly, safe, and welcoming environment for all, regardless of level of experience, gender identity and expression, sexual orientation, disability, personal appearance, body size, race, ethnicity, age, religion, nationality, or other similar characteristic.”

  • @Buffalox
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    201 year ago

    Yes, the recipe for twitter and facebook too.

    I hope that the fact that this is a community not run for profit, means we will be better, and remember to behave with decency.

    I must admit it happened I got sucked in, so I ended up deleting my reddit account a couple of years ago.

    • @DarkWasp
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      11 months ago

      deleted by creator

      • @dustyData
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        91 year ago

        I think it was a typo, but fund is actually quite appropriate. Plenty of forums back in the day were funded by donations and ads. No ad aggregators though, so in the best forums you only got ads from quality, community relevant, vetted services. Membership meant something because your dimes literally kept the lights on.

        I don’t like this “pay with your privacy and dignity” world that social media threw us in.

        • @hydra
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          51 year ago

          I remember SMW Central having small, non-intrusive, user-created paid banners at the top. I always make an ad blocker exception for them.

      • @Malisu19997
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        1 year ago

        Those days were also nice because there was no DDoS protection, if they pissed you off enough (or enough other people) you could strike them off the Internet with enough bandwith and peers. Ah good times.

        • @CurlyMoustache
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          21 year ago

          Ah, yes, the golden days of cancel culture

          /s

          • @aldamar
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            -11 year ago

            That would be today, right now, this post in particular