• @Son_of_dad
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    1011 months ago

    It is better to just tell your partner what you like, so you don’t have to bitch later

    • @Num10ck
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      511 months ago

      for some the bitching is the point.

    • @HowManyNimons
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      111 months ago

      Probably a good idea to float the idea of hitting someone on the vagina before busting out that particular move. It’s quite plausible that they aren’t going to like it.

      • @Son_of_dad
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        111 months ago

        You don’t go into it doing a slap challenge. You get her going, then you give her box a couple little soft swats and you watch her reaction

    • @[email protected]
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      011 months ago

      sometimes people talk with people about sex without ever intending to have sex with each other. like we do rn. open discussion culture.

      I agree, talking desires/needs directly, but as with every activity, humans have the capability to reflect on said activities and talking about that with your partner can improve the sex you share