• @[email protected]
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    6810 months ago

    Pleasure cruises, golf and tracing the family tree seem like cherry picked bad examples.

    • Jo Miran
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      10 months ago

      What my retirement is shaping up to look like:

      • Steam backlog with over a thousand games
      • Dozens of board games
      • Card games
      • Gigs worth of TTRPG PDFs
      • Gigs of Audiobooks
      • Terabytes of TV and Movies
      • Snowboarding
      • Skateboarding
      • Mountain biking
      • Off-Grid Van Life
      • Learning guitar
      • Learning electronic music production

      I dunno. I suspect I won’t miss office politics, stressed clients and the rest much.

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      I forgot to add “painting table top miniatures” and “modding guitars” to the list. Here is a Washburn I modded into a rubber bridge.

      • @[email protected]
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        Unless you plan to retire very early, you should try to learn guitar long before retirement. Learning something, especially music, is much harder when you get older.

        • @[email protected]
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          2610 months ago

          I get that you’re trying to be helpful, but playing the guitar well isn’t the goal. It’s ok that it is more difficult to learn as you get older, the point is to enjoy the learning. It’s unhelpful to discourage anyone at any stage of life from learning to play a new instrument or learn a new skill. Enjoy the process when you are free to take all the time you need.

          • Flying Squid
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            I agree. I have taught myself to play many instruments in my life. I can’t play any of them well, but that wasn’t the point. The point was to learn how to play a new musical instrument. Sure, I can’t pick up a saxophone right now and sound like John Coltrane, but I know all the essentials of how to play a saxophone, and if I spent a couple of weeks at it, I could probably do some basic, but listenable, jazz on it. With a guitar, I can’t pick it up and play like Jimi Hendrix, but I can play chords and sing along with them. I’ve learned a lot of other instruments at a very amateur level because the joy wasn’t in learning to play them well, it was in learning to play them.

        • @Coreidan
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          410 months ago

          Load of bullshit. You can learn guitar at any age.

      • Flying Squid
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        310 months ago

        I have a friend who is very happily spending his retirement wargaming- playing games, inventing games, painting models and writing and self-publishing books on wargaming. He seems extremely satisfied.

        • Jo Miran
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          310 months ago

          Yep. I forgot to add “painting miniatures” to the list.

          • Flying Squid
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            310 months ago

            Some of his miniatures are super miniature too. Like a quarter the size of Warhammer miniatures. And he does a very good job of painting their little Napoleonic uniforms or whatever.

    • @cm0002
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      2210 months ago

      Not necessarily, those are all things lots of people get pleasure out of, I even like to research my family tree from time to time and I’m nowhere close to retirement yet lmao

      • @[email protected]
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        Lots of, but not the majority. They could have picked many other things that would seem fun for much larger groups of people, but that would be counterproductive for trying to convince you to work forever.

        edit: note that I live on a vacation destination for golf and cruises, and this is still my impression.