• @dfc09
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    695 months ago

    “when they think you’re gross”

    How can I know if someone thinks I’m gross if I haven’t spoken to them yet? I should just assume I’m gross, always?

    • @afraid_of_zombies
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      15 months ago

      Usually when they get the torches out and organize the rest of the angry villagers I know that they don’t think highly of me.

    • @[email protected]
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      -685 months ago

      That’s the fun part, you can’t. Don’t assume they think you’re gross, but do remember that you don’t know what they think.

        • @douglasg14b
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          -45 months ago

          Or 3rd wave femanist. Hard to tell the difference sometimes 🤔

          (For examples, head over to TwoXChromosones for nearly identical hot takes as the commenter above yours)

      • credit crazy
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        115 months ago

        So basically dateing is just Russian roulette with extra steps.

      • @[email protected]
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        5 months ago

        But if I tell them they’re beautiful and it turns out they think I’m gross I could go to prison for harassment! Am I really just supposed to roll the dice like that?

          • @[email protected]
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            05 months ago

            Oh, you’re right! I’ll only get sued and probably lose my job. That makes it okay then.

            But just to think that none of that would have happened of someone sexier than I was had done the exact same things I had done!