• Jo Miran
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    559 months ago

    Once you hit 45+ all remaining “give a fucks” disappear and dating becomes much easier. This is a gender agnostic statement.

    • @GrymEdmOP
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      449 months ago

      I have an appropriate picture:

    • @ChowJeeBai
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      139 months ago

      True. As you age, you realize more that you need to find a compatible, complimentary partner, rather than one you destroy yourself to please/ complete.

    • @Stupidmanager
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      109 months ago

      Inspired. I’m in the 45+ arena and just divorced after a number of decades together. I was worried about it until I realized that I (male) did all the cooking, cleaning and paid most bills. I paid for vacations, kids school events, groceries…. Even parenting was lopsided.

      So my first date was just this tidal wave of insights into the shit I put up with. The gal just offered to have me come over and cook for me this weekend. I know she’s not the one, but damn does it feel good to just have someone else care.

    • @Potatos_are_not_friends
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      19 months ago

      I’m 40 and I thought I had given up all my fucks.

      Looks like I still have some shedding to do!