• @[email protected]
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    Make a rule that one of you has to propose three options, and the other has to pick one of those three. Your partner can choose which role they want.

    It’s a bit like telling two children that one can cut the cake, but the other gets first pick - but it’s a hack to combat your own (collective) indecisiveness.

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      13 months ago

      How do you get your partner to co-operate with this?

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        It helps that the proposal is clearly reasonable, and can be made beforehand, before there’s any friction. I might be lucky to have a pretty reasonable partner though.

        Though in reality, for me the problem is that often I’m both persons. I don’t want to come up with what’s for dinner, but I also don’t feel like anything. The above hack still works to trick myself into at least making a decision.