For me it’s foot fetish stuff. Every damned thing else is on the table but before I could make the lethal mistake of talking about it, she expressed her giga-ick about the issue. To this day I thank God I saw the metaphorical fly hit that electric fence before I walked into it.
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Oof. as a 100% straight dude, I feel for you. Fetishization without consent is the worst.
Are you sure you want to be with someone you don’t trust will accept you for who you actually are?
I dunno why you got downvoted for that. No sane person wants to be with someone who fetishizes or who isn’t trustworthy about accepting who they are. That’s like life 101.
As a bi dude, I feel you. Except with me it doesn’t lead to fetishization. It leads to a loss of respect, cheating, and destruction of the relationship.