For me it’s foot fetish stuff. Every damned thing else is on the table but before I could make the lethal mistake of talking about it, she expressed her giga-ick about the issue. To this day I thank God I saw the metaphorical fly hit that electric fence before I walked into it.
Are you sure you want to be with someone you don’t trust will accept you for who you actually are?
I dunno why you got downvoted for that. No sane person wants to be with someone who fetishizes or who isn’t trustworthy about accepting who they are. That’s like life 101.