I’ve been seeing a worrying number of these people on Lemmy lately, sharing enlightened takes including but not limited to “voting for Biden is tantamount to fascism” and “the concept of an assigned gender, or even an assigned name, at birth is transphobic” and none of them seem to be interested in reading more than the first sentence of any of my comments before writing a reply.

More often than not they reply with a concern I addressed in the comment they’re replying to, without any explanation of why my argument was invalid. Some of them cannot even state their own position, instead simply repeatedly calling mine oppressive in some way.

It occurred to me just now that these interactions reminded me of nothing so much as an evangelical Christian I got into an argument with on Matrix a while ago, in which I met him 95% of the way, conceded that God might well be real and that being trans was sinful and tried to convince him not to tell that to every trans person he passed, and failed. I am 100% convinced he was trolling – in retrospect I’m pretty sure I could’ve built a municipal transport system by letting people ride on top of his goalposts (that’s what I get for picking a fight with a Christian at 2AM) – and the only reason I’m not convinced these leftists on Lemmy are trolls is the sheer fucking number of them.

I made this post and what felt like half the responses fell into this category. Am I going insane?

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    • @givesomefucks
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      So how long does it take to go from “overthrowing the new warlords” and “we have to stay this way because this is the way it is”?

      Like I know you didn’t mean to, but you just made a pretty good argument why a revolution isn’t inherently a bad thing: it’s replacing warlords.

      Be a use even if you’re right, and every single prior revolution has resulted in warlords gaining power

      That doesn’t mean the next one will too. And the alternative is living under a system that’s inherently corrupt and was created by warlords whose main desire would be maintaining power and preventing change at all costs.

      Like, you can say you don’t want to try, but why try to talk others out of the chance to make things better for everyone including yourself?

      Why shit on people who want to make the world better just because they care to even talk about trying?

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        Why shit on people who want to make the world better just because they care to even talk about trying?

        I almost think that’s the intent of the original post. Lots of people are doing important justice work, but in some circles they are treated like traitors to the cause if they aren’t threatening class warfare.

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          and none of them seem to be interested in reading more than the first sentence of any of my comments before writing a reply.

          I feel like that’s the important bit of what OP typed.

          OP wants to make 20 claims in one comment, and expects anyone that replies to address all 20 in depth.

          That’s known as a Gish Gallop. The point of it is to overrwhelm someone with so many false claims that they can’t respond to them all.

          OP is claiming that instead of people doing that, they stop and address the first untrue thing OP has claimed…

          Which is apparently their first sentence the majority of the time.

          But the fundamental overall point of complaints like OP, is they feel there shouldn’t be standards if you’re on the same “team”. Which ironically is what it’s like for devout religious followers.

          No matter the small disagreements, at the end of the day you’re on the same team.

          The left tends to have more varied standards of what’s ok, and an unwillingness to compromise personal morals to fit in with the “team”.

          Most people think that’s a good thing. The opposite is how we keep ending up with fucking nazis all the time.

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            OP wants to make 20 claims in one comment, and expects anyone that replies to address all 20 in depth.

            No, I mean that I wrote a comment with five sentences and you literally only read the first one.

            For the record, I wrote that sentence in reference to the post I linked to in the body. Take this chain, for example. Or this one where someone admitted point blank to not reading a single word I wrote.

            Now. It would be incredibly hypocritical of me to not respond to the rest of your comment after chewing you out for not responding to the rest of mine, so I will. I do not think it is unreasonable, if I agree with 90% of your positions but disagree with the remaining 10%, to expect not to be treated like a fully fledged enemy. I absolutely do not think that saying I’m on the same team should be sufficient to demand respect, but I do expect to be given the benefit of the doubt, and to be able have a civil discussion about why the less-drastic methods I prefer to achieve the same aims you seek are insufficient. I was not in the thread I think you are referencing.

            • @GardenVarietyAnxiety
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              Can I offer a little advice…? I recently started doing this myself.

              If the language starts to become emotional, nope out asap. These people just want a fight, and you won’t get anything else out of them.

              At best they are emotionally immature and might grow out of it some day, at worst they are trolls trying to drain your energy so it can’t be used elsewhere.

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            That’s known as a Gish Gallop. The point of it is to overrwhelm someone with so many false claims that they can’t respond to them all.

            I’m not really sure that a gish gallop can happen in a written medium. In this case, someone could very well just make an extremely long drawn out post that addresses all 20 points. It’s not like a live chat or a conversation where someone can talk over you, or actually just raise a bunch of new points that don’t make a lot of sense when bunched together.

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              In this case, someone could very well just make an extremely long drawn out post that addresses all 20 points.

              And that would take a lot of time and effort…

              For no chance of it working, your time is just being wasted

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                Why comment in the first place with only a single point that has absolutely no chance of working, then?

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        • @givesomefucks
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          Meaningful change happens through incremental progress

          Name one large change that happened slowly over decades that wasn’t a slow build till the dam burst.

          It’s be nice if you used America, but you’re not gonna find an example.

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            Minimum wage increase? LGBTQ rights? Hell, even segregation took a few decades to fully go away, and depending on who you ask, it still hasn’t.

            Of course we should be disruptive and protest and riot. But let’s also focus on one issue at a time instead of saying “anything short of perfection in a single step is not worth fighting for at all”

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              Minimum wage increase?

              Uh…

              The federal minimum wage was last updated in 2009…

              What was the campaign slogan of the president who won the 2008 election? I can’t remember, but I’m pretty sure his campaign wasn’t about sudden change was bad and we should move things slowly.

              Besides, we’re talking about incremental change. And I guess “every 15 years” would be an increment, but Biden hasn’t talked about raising it, and trump won’t, so the best we can hope for is “every 20 years”?

              Like, you didn’t get three words in before you started arguing my point homie.

              You’re too hung up on labels and not on how most voters want the same stuff.

              If you want incremental change with the federal minimum wage, neither party is giving you what you want.

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                • @givesomefucks
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                  Lol.

                  Cool, I’ll buy your car for a billion dollars and make incremental payments.

                  I’ll pay a penny a month, and increas a penny every month. That’s an incremental rate, right? So it’s just as good as paying at sale. In about 83 million years it’ll be paid off, do t get impatient, the amount keeps increasing incrementally, you’ll be paid eventually.

                  Hell, I’m being generous setting the schedule now, I could make you go decades wondering if incremental change will happen at completely unknown increments

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                You know, when I wrote in the original post that leftists didn’t read more than the first sentence of a comment before writing a reply, I thought I was exaggerating.

                What about LGBTQ rights and segregation?

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                  It says a lot your main complaint with “leftists” online is they ignore the gold standard of Russian propaganda…

                  https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gish_gallop

                  If you can’t go a sentence before saying something false, don’t expect people to write about everything else false you said and refuting each falsehood one at a time.

                  Like, you’re the one saying this happens often to you, I’m just trying to help you understand why it always happens.

                  If you admit the first thing is wrong, most people will move on to the second. No guarantees how long their keep going

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                    If you admit the first thing is wrong, most people will move on to the second.

                    You have exactly one comment to do that before I report you for being a troll.

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            • @daltotron
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              Cuba. Haiti. The Chiapas. Uhh, probably brazil. I dunno, I guess my point would just be to kinda of gesture at anticolonial action more broadly, but yeah.

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              Or do you think that the UK and Canada got our healthcare systems through violent rebellion instead of parliamentary action?

              What?

              Do you think the only sudden change is violent rebellion?

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                  Have you not lread anything I’ve typed?

                  But the “sweetie” is enough, anyone that uses that stupid shit in 2024 isn’t worth interacting with, and it’s clear no amount of logic will ever change your mind.

                  Have a nice life “sweetie” I’m sure that makes you super popular in /askmen

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                • @jmanes
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                  January 6th folks were not revolutionists. They were there to re-install the same leader (Trump) into the same power structure that already existed. Their actions were pro-government, just for their side rather than the other.

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          To be fair, the Socialist Revolutionary Party split up right before the election, and the right-wing retained the name. The Internet didn’t exist, so the public largely wasn’t aware. The left wing program won the majority of votes, even though the right wing SRP, who did not support the left wing program, won the vote.

          Adding onto this, there were 2 governments, the constituent assembly, and the Soviets. The constituent assembly additionally did not recognize the october revolution or the legitimacy of the Soviets.

          Lenin then took the Bolsheviks, disbanded the Constituent Assembly, and took power through the Soviets, where they had the majority support.

          All that to say, the constituent assembly election was largely a mess, and it can be reasonably argued that if the decision to retain the constitient assembly and retain the right wing SRP had witheld, the popular will of the people would not have been upheld and the White Army likely would have returned Russia to Monarchism under the Romanovs.

          It really wasn’t a situation with a clear democratic process at any time, neither before or after, which is the reality of a revolution during war time, so we can only speculate from hindsite what might have happened.

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          This simply isn’t true. Throughout history you will observe longs periods of stagnation followed by a period of rapid change. This pattern is noticable in many things but especially in human political arrangement. Feudalism didn’t decay capitalism and capitalism won’t decay into socialism

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            Incrementalists reject the idea of punctuated equilibrium.