• tygerprints
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    5211 months ago

    I wish more people regarded their family fuzzies as friends, not mere pets. If you spend time and bond with them, cats and dogs can be the most loving and rewarding people you know.

    • @samus12345
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      2411 months ago

      They’re more like kids than friends, since friends don’t usually rely on you to survive. They’re call fur babies for a reason.

      • tygerprints
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        511 months ago

        I think of my cat as an actual full-grown member of our family…of course she’s older now, but I want her to feel she’s as well regarded and cared about as anyone else. My in laws were just here, and they treat the cat like a pet - meaning, they disregard her presence and never even once noticed her at all. I dote on her, but maybe I’m a bit prejudiced because she’s so cute…!

      • @AWistfulNihilist
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        611 months ago

        There’s a documentary about Gunther, apparently it’s all a scam and the whole thing is a cult.

    • BlanketsWithSmallpox
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      811 months ago

      I don’t think I’ve met anyone that wasn’t ratchet or degen who thought of their pet as anything other than close companions.

      • tygerprints
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        311 months ago

        There was a news article in USA Today (which we always get about five days late for some reason) about a woman who adopted a chihuahua that was mutilated by it’s former owners and had it’s paws chopped off to the bone.

        The woman said, “please we don’t know who did this to this dog, but no calls for justice, we just want to get the dog better.” They were fitting it with special pads so it could try and walk again.

        I just have to wonder about the criminally sick mentality that could harm a dog or cat that way.

          • tygerprints
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            011 months ago

            I hope so. It’s really sick and disgusting. They think it was probably a male who did it because the dog is now terrified of men. I just have to wonder how people can live with themselves.

  • @[email protected]
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    4011 months ago

    As cute as that sounds, for dogs, reducing separation anxiety is counterintuitive.

    The more emotional both departing and returning is. The more it hurts them when you leave, the more separation anxiety develops.

    In an ideal world, when you leave your dog for the day, saying nothing when going and a professionally distant “greetings puppy” when you return will reduce anxiety for a dog when left alone. This doesn’t work by itself; you have to teach them to be alone slowly and carefully.

    • @PlantDadManGuy
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      911 months ago

      While I agree with you about the unceremonious departings, I firmly believe that when you’re reunited with pets you should greet them wholeheartedly, on their level with unbridled affection.

      • @ikidd
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        711 months ago

        Lock them in a closet first for extra distance.

  • @justanotheruser4
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    3911 months ago

    Nooooo You are just training them to try harder and harder

  • @doingthestuff
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    I’ve had pets for more than forty years and I’ve never had one try to convince me not to go to work. Either:

    I’m an asshole and they want me to leave

    I’m a workaholic and they know not to bother asking (likely)

    I’m oblivious to them making this plea every day

    • @ocassionallyaduck
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      What the fuck is this response.

      Unless you make a convincing argument otherwise, I’m gonna mark you as a bot and encourage others to do so as well.

      • StametsOP
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        I have no idea. They posted on a few of my posts in rapid fire succession and none of the comments make sense.

        Edit: I am loving the fact that everyone is active and reporting offending stuff overall. Please do keep that energy! But I’m definitely aware of this comment and looking into it at the moment. Their whole posting history is… strange and there’s a discussion happening. Don’t worry. It’s being taken care of. Thanks for y’alls diligence <3