• queermunist she/her@lemmy.ml
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    1 year ago

    No, it’s always about sex too. Women don’t just spawn children from nothing, after all.

    It’s like findom combined with a breeding and submissive fetish.

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      1 year ago

      Well, what can you do. If somebody wants do be dominated.

      But yes, kinda disgusting.

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        1 year ago

        The big problem with these situations is that’s there’s no “safeword”. There’s no out. She may have consented going into it, but there’s no way for her to withdraw that consent.

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            1 year ago

            You are assuming that her saying “no” would be respected. These are the people that don’t believe that spousal rape is a thing.

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              1 year ago

              Carrying a gun as part of that aesthetic?

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                1 year ago

                It tends to be very hard to leave a relationship when you don’t have access to your own money, transportation, and housing, especially if you’re going to try to take the gaggle of kids with you. Physical violence is not the only means of control in abusive relationships.