I’m looking for something to share images and videos between small family group. We use mix of android and apple. Text messages are terrible for images and videos.

We were using telegram, now I want to see what lemmy has to offer. Thank you in advance.

  • @rwdf
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    Signal.

  • @[email protected]
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    Signal is probably the simplest to get started with.

    There is also element/matrix for more of a discord type feel.

    SimpleX if you want something more anonymous.

    • @CrazyslinkzOP
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      Not looking for discord type feel. Looking for easy set up and communicating with older people and able to share videos and images.

  • HEXN3T
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    Everyone is saying Signal, but my family uses a Matrix space (mix of phones and PCs in this case) and it works great. It’s FOSS, federated. Truly future-proof.

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      Yeah. Signal is the most polished, but Matrix is the most future-proof.

      And that’s not to say that matrix lacks polish, Signal is just excellent in this regard.

      • @bradboimler
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        At this point I feel the Matrix clients I’ve been keeping on eye on are more polished than Signal. None of my contacts are on Matrix though.

        • @[email protected]
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          Yeah? Which ones specifically? I like to keep tabs on Matrix - it’s really the most open of the secure systems, and if it’s clean enough to recommend, all the better.

          • @bradboimler
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            I recommend Element web (it has a nice PWA), Element X for Android, and the matrix.org homeserver. They’re in the middle of a migration to OpenID Connect which should simplify auth for users. You may wanna wait for that.

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    I’d recommend Threema. It’s privacy focused, based in Switzerland. You don’t even need a phone number to create an account, they collect no data on you (claimed, but haven’t checked) and the code is open source, under A-GPL 3 license.

    There’s a build for Apple and Android, for which you pay once.

    I use this to talk with important family members.

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      I forgot to mention, it’s easy to use, as it’s similar to every other messenger app, so even not so techy members can use it.

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    Signal is a nice suggestion but is based in the US meaning they could be subpoenaed and legally not allowed to say. It’s unlikely you’d be targeted though, unless you’re a very high-profile person. If you’re concerned about where servers are being run and who by then matrix is a great alternative.

    • @CrazyslinkzOP
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      216 days ago

      I don’t care. It’s for sharing images and videos of grandkids to grandparents.

    • Remy Rose
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      Do they have a warrant canary? I bet they might, hopefully

  • fisco™🇬🇧🇺🇦
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    I’ve been using Delta Chat for the last few weeks, its very similar to WhatsApp, but decentralised… Works very well, available on android & ios, definitely worth a look, as it could be good for your use case…

    https://delta.chat/en/

    • Weirdmusic
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      Nah, use Signal. It just works

        • @ace_garp
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          No phone number required for DeltaChat.

          It packetises and encrypts chats, using email(SMTP) as the transport medium. Can send downsampled pics, videos or Push-to-talk audio. Can send full quality pics, videos, or attachments too.

          It’s on F-Droid, and you can use a seperate free email address(100MB limit) for the SMTP backend (from https://nine.testrun.org/ ), or use your own existing email address.

          Elegant and robust.

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    I just got to know about Delta Chat which sounds fantastic as it basically uses your email but wrapped as chat.

    XMPP and Matrix are other good options too, although these require creating an account (Delta Chat can work with your normal email account).

    The good thing about these last 2 is that they have calls and all that stuff.

  • @[email protected]
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    116 days ago

    What’s missing from the text and photos functionality of text messaging, that you need from this app?

    • SouthFresh
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      Photo/video sharing will undergo re-encoding under some circumstances, like mixed Andoir/iOS groups

      • 2xsaiko
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        How can you even do mixed Android/iOS groups right now from iOS? I keep seeing people refer to that, but before I installed the iOS 18 Beta that added RCS, I tried and non-iMessage “group chats” were essentially just a broadcast list where the recipients just saw it as coming from me.

        • SouthFresh
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          I’m in a couple. They’re not behaving as you’ve described, but I’m in an iPhone 11, so there’s that.

        • @Zangoose
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          I think that only happens when one of the phones doesn’t support MMS (which afaik is pretty much just ancient flip phones unless your carrier doesn’t support it for some reason). Otherwise group chats work “fine” but with terrible image/photo quality

          • 2xsaiko
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            They all should, they’re relatively recent phones and at least one of them I’ve sent MMS images to and the other one is on the same carrier as me.

            Maybe group chats is just something carriers in Germany don’t support. Nobody in their right mind here sends MMS anyway, it still costs 36 cents or so to send one, for me at least. Pretty much a straight up scam.

    • @CrazyslinkzOP
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      Text messages drop quality of images and videos are terrible. Can’t do anything over 10 seconds.