• AdaOP
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      92 years ago

      Because it sounded funny?

  • @[email protected]
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    92 years ago

    If you were to be without electronics for a one month vacation what would you do for entertainment?

    • AdaOP
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      52 years ago

      Books, walking and cycling! Though doing sports without electronics would be a challenge for me.

        • AdaOP
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          62 years ago

          I love dystopian science fiction, but really, anything where the story and the characters are nuanced and imperfect. Where the “good guys” are conflicted and sometimes selfish, and where the “bad guys” are human.

  • @Semenaisse
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    72 years ago

    What was the drama? Can you link it.

    • AdaOP
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      62 years ago

      I defederated lemmynsfw from the instance I admin

      • The dogspaw
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        52 years ago

        Are you against nsfw content in general or just on your instance

        • @[email protected]
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          She mistook an onlyfans model for underage (she wasn’t) and decided a community was made for models that are or look underage because it has “adorable” in the name (it isn’t). She demanded the lemmynsfw admins remove the community and content (they didn’t), and she defederated her instance from it, hence the drama. One of the biggest instance dramas of Lemmy so far! We really need a community for this shit.

          • AdaOP
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            32 years ago

            Oh look, there’s the drama!

            • @[email protected]
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              Are you uh, surprised it was brought up? After you mentioned it in your AMA post? Lol

              • AdaOP
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                -32 years ago

                I’m surprised it took this long :)

          • @mysoulishome
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            22 years ago

            Does anyone care if 1 instance defederates when there are hundreds to choose from?

        • AdaOP
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          42 years ago

          Neither. Our instance is home to several nsfw communities

      • @tsz
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        02 years ago

        So brave

    • AdaOP
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      52 years ago

      I ride a Merida Scultura 200, which is like Baby’s First Real Roadbike :)

        • AdaOP
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          42 years ago

          Oh, a cross country bike! That sounds like it would only be a matter of time before I came off it :P

            • AdaOP
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              22 years ago

              It’s so light! It’s interesting, because when I read reviews, they all comment on how heavy it is compared to more expensive road bikes, but coming from my background with a hybrid, the road bike is SO light.

              I mostly use it for commuting though, as a way of keeping up my fitness, and cross training for my running, which is my main interest. I average about 22km/h on my commutes. Much faster when I do dedicates rides on bike paths, but I don’t do them so much

                • AdaOP
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                  22 years ago

                  Generally nothing more than a coffee.

                  I get up early, I have my coffee, and then I ride. I eat on the other side of the ride :)

    • AdaOP
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      112 years ago

      “You have ADHD. Do something about it, or it will sabotage you for years, without you knowing why you can’t do the things everyone else seems able to do”

      • Pxtl
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        42 years ago

        I’m iny 40s and finally got help from a doctor about it after getting the runaround for decades.

        Oh my God I am so retroactively angry.

        • AdaOP
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          42 years ago

          Yep. I got diagnosed after my kiddo did, and it’s hard not to be angry at all of the missed opportunities and losses that it has caused me, because I simply wasn’t equipped to understand or work around the executive function deficits

    • AdaOP
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      Honestly, my changing relationship with my orientation. I struggled with how it impacted my sense of self and my place in the world and the queer community far more than I struggled with my gender identity

        • AdaOP
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          62 years ago

          A friend who provides a safe supporting space to talk/exist when the rest of the world doesn’t is super valuable. The specifics don’t really matter :)

          Make your support obvious and unambiguous

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      How do you feel about people who kiss server admin butts?

      I mean, as long as they’re one of my partners, I’m down :P

      • @[email protected]
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        Are you familiar at least? Check her out.

        Also, I’m glad blahaj zone exists so thank you for that

        • AdaOP
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          22 years ago

          Are you familiar at least? Check her out.

          I will, and I’ll report back :)