I’m usually pretty gutter brained, but this one took me a second.
Honestly I think unless someone is gay thee generals public are going to just read it as MAMABEAR.
TIL I’m gay
I’m not gay, but who hasn’t had the occasional gay thoughts ya know? Haha
Bi people
True. Pretty used to considering all gender and sexuality as spectra, where labels can feel arbitrary. But if someone thinks of it as gay, I accept the compliment.
I could see myself reading it either way depending on the layout. At least in my state, license plates have a space between the first 3 letters and the last four, so “M4M” would look a lot more like “M4F” and “F4M”, which also seem commonly used, so its not like the notation is unique to gay people. And “bear” and “twink” are both pretty commonly understood.
Yes hi, I’m the bear ;p
Aren’t you a (midnight) wolf? This is confusing
A bear in wolf’s clothing?
I’m a wolf that indulges in sweets and general over-eating… often. Chubby wolves can be bears, too :P
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male for male for bear dating/hookups.
So there is some niche use of some phrase? How is that relevant? There are SO many niche things.
Just because YOU missed it doesn’t make it niche
No it’s definitely niche
Really? I’m a midwestern cishet middle aged dude and I got it right away… maybe I spend too much time on mastodon.
[M/F]4[Descriptor] has been used for hookups online for at least 30 years, definitely not niche.
also the sub this is in must’ve come across this stuff, it’s on every app
Two dudes spit roasting a twink?
M 4 M 4 Bear
Male 4 Male 4 Bear
Basically it’s just saying two dudes wanna fuck another hairy dude in Craigslist speak