• Hextic
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    1192 years ago

    I bet cash money that husband has a secret Grindr account.

      • @[email protected]
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        502 years ago

        Claiming that someone’s homophobia is because they are secretly gay is ultimately blaming the gays for said homophobia.

        It’s also entirely possible that someone is just a hateful piece of shit.

        • LemmyLefty
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          212 years ago

          Women can be sexist and nonwhite people can be racist: being a member of a marginalized group unfortunately doesn’t inherently keep someone from perpetuating the discrimination against said group. It’s absolutely true that a lot of, and definitely the majority, of homophobic people are straight, but a lot of the terror-based homophobia stems from projection.

        • @DulyNoted
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          182 years ago

          Unfortunately, being gay isn’t a panacea, and one can be both gay and a huge piece of shit.

        • @[email protected]
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          62 years ago

          I get what you’re saying.
          But usually it’s really they are a hateful piece of shit because they are secretly gay. The loudest ones tend to be the most secretly what they are yelling about.

          • @WhyIsItReal
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            142 years ago

            i just don’t believe that that’s actually true, though. most homophobes are just pieces of shit, not secretly gay

              • @WhyIsItReal
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                112 years ago

                … i’m an asshole because i think that homophobes are mostly bad people, not self-hating gay people?

                • @[email protected]
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                  Honestly, I misread what you said and thought you were saying angry gay people were mostly bad people. Lol yikes, I apologize

                  That’s embarrassing

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                  no you’re not an asshole. I agree with you that some people are just homophobic pos and not secretly gay. But for this one in particular, if true, it’s screaming insecurity rather than homophobia.

        • @CombatWombat1212
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          52 years ago

          ?? It’s blaming a gay person for being homophobic, by what logic does it apply to all of them?

        • @duh
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          42 years ago

          Yeah, he may be just a POS, but he seems to think so hard in what looks gay or not… looks like he’s hiding.

        • Uriel238 [all pronouns]
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          Um, I’d argue that it’s blaming the people that drive others to subvert their own tendencies, e.g. the gay-is-icky crowd of which the Christian national movement is a subset.

          If gay was truly okay, and we didn’t have guys who felt pressured to be alpha masc, then no-one would blink twice when a toddler liked flowers and rainbows.

    • @[email protected]
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      262 years ago

      She provides baby food. Why wouldn’t the baby prefer her more. Heck I’ll hang out with someone more if they gave me food.

      • @[email protected]
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        62 years ago

        More importantly it sounds like she doesn’t judge and criticize everything the son does, at one year old

  • @damnfinecoffee
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    432 years ago

    Man some people really should not have kids

  • @[email protected]
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    292 years ago

    Kid put a banana in his mouth. Yeah kids put everything in their mouths! Be glad it’s food and not random carpet lint.

      • Bizarroland
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        62 years ago

        That must be where I went wrong. I put carpet in my mouth and a banana in my ass

    • @DulyNoted
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      72 years ago

      I just feel bad that she had to have a kid with the guy to find this out

  • Jo Miran
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    182 years ago

    I genuinely feel sad for people that love in such fear and anger. It sounds exhausting.

  • Klara
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    32 years ago

    Fellas, is it gay to be checks notes A LITERAL CHILD!?