• @MajorTom
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    So, this is both fascinating and remarkably simple once you learn some basics about how spoken language evolves.

    Let’s start here: say “woman” out loud. Now, say it again, and this time pay attention to your tongue. When you said “woman,” did you pronounce the “o” sound at the front of your mouth, higher in your mouth, and the “a” at the back, lower in your mouth?

    Now try this. Say “women,” again paying close attention to where the vowel sounds come from in your mouth. First pronounce “women” as it is written- kind of like “woah men.” Do you feel how much more work that requires that pronouncing “woman” does? Now, pronounce “women” as you naturally do. Assuming you are in North America, this probably sounds a bit like “wimmin.”

    Probably, this “wimmin” pronunciation feels easier and more natural. This is largely because those vowel sounds originate in roughly the same area. When a word has multiple vowel sounds and they move from front to back or top to bottom, there’s a good chance we will naturally shift towards an easier pronunciation.

    • @[email protected]
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      And then there’s Thai language, each word pronounce like the sounds originate from 12 different places in your mouth while being choked to death. Then do a big snort after every 3rd words.

    • @[email protected]
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      281 year ago

      Yes? English is only my second language, but the way I hear it:

      Woman: Whoman

      Women: Wimin or Wimen

      The latter is much shorter.

        • @CoggyMcFee
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          The i-pronunciation is commonplace enough that some feminists who want to avoid the word “men” spell “women” as “wimmin”, i.e. the phonetic spelling.

          • @themusicman
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            110 months ago

            Interesting. I associate the “wimmin” spelling with Terry Pratchett’s writing, where it’s used in the speech of lower/middle-class men, implying casual/uninformed objectification.

  • Denvil
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    151 year ago

    Am I the only one who pronounces them both with an I sound

    • @[email protected]
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      121 year ago

      Are the two obviously differentiated like that?

      In most of the American English accents I’m familiar with, they’re pronounced “WI men” and “WŌ man.”

      If I try to sound out using an I in both, the only way they sound different to me is if I move the accent to the final syllable, to mane it stand out. Something like “wi MEN” vs “wi MAN.”

      If so, I’d love to hear where you’re from.

      • Denvil
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        From Ohio, and they aren’t differntiated at all I just pronounce them the same (although I was mistaken about which part of the word the meme was referencing, I still pronounce both with an o/u sound at the beginning)

  • @dhruv
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    111 year ago

    Accents matter. It sounds like “vho-men” when I say it.

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      And from there we get to gender neutral term homan, referring to to all you hoes.

      Edit: apparently some sources incorrectly write the word as “human”

  • MrMobius
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    81 year ago

    English not being my first language, I can relate to that thought 😅

    • @kraftpudding
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      31 year ago

      When I started learning English I pronounced woman as woh-man. Good times

      • MrMobius
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        Lol, there was a joke about “woh-men” in the game Disco Elysium, if I’m not mistaken. But the game only tells you “the world is in danger from the mysterious Wo-men”. Maybe some players never realised it critisized sexism?

  • CIWS-30
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    Also correct if he’s thinking about cute dogs / cats / other animals that have more than 1 female in the group.

    • @crossal
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      For the love of God are you referring to the first or second vowel? People seem to think OP is talking about the second

      • @[email protected]
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        I was just shitposting while high. but the real question isn’t “why are they pronounced differently?” but “why are they written the same?”

        Woman is an ellison of wīfmann

        Man is an abbreviation of wermann

        “Mann” meaning “human” and wīf/wer meaning “female/male”

        No one asks why “man and men” are pronounced differently, and it’s likely we’d have “wermann / wermen” pronounced “wur-man” and “wier-men” if we’d kept the distinction.

            • ℛ𝒶𝓋ℯ𝓃
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              21 year ago

              I see that this joke is satire, making fun of those people now. Which is fine, just not my cup of tea since I grew up with people who actually believed that and weren’t using it sarcastically.

            • @noproblemmy
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              -41 year ago

              I think it would only be funny to other abuse-condoning misogynists

              • @[email protected]
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                You would be wrong. It’s making fun of those type of people.

                It’s not in your lane, that’s fine. Not a big deal to miss a dumb joke.

                • @noproblemmy
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                  With the feedback you’re getting it seems to be falling flat then - a joke that’s more easily interpreted as perpetuating the issue is not going to have that intended outcome