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  • Ugh. Yeah, that sounds familiar. Never seen people send themselves down that cycle so hard. Get punished, unable to let go of the anger, get told to stop or more punishment, I don’t fucking care punish me, gets more punishment.

    Sucks if you don’t understand it. People just need to be told to fuck off and cool down, then you can deal with it. In the heat of the problem ADHD makes it so much worse.





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    1 year ago

    On the contrary. Some people are wired in such a way that shifting gears is hard, and hyper focusing on the expectation that someone will show up at a specific time, or hyper-focusing on pizza in my made up situation, and doesn’t can be really difficult to deal with as a kid who can’t emotionally deal with that. ADHD has a lot of variety and tangential fallout that you might not really think of.


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    No, not like that.

    More like: Johnny says he’ll be here at three. Johnny shows up at 3:25. Kid is pissed he wasn’t there at 3.

    Or: Hey, we might go out for pizza next Friday. Kid hears Friday=Pizza, and gets pissed because some other thing got in the way of pizza and didn’t hear the “might” part.

    Nobody lied with the intent to deceive or mislead. Just life happens.






  • I’ve lived in left leaning areas for decades. Solar is everywhere, from rooftops to open fields. We don’t have a ton of wind, but there’s a lot of offshore farms and quite a few in the hills. Nobody is “taking” land, it’s sold by the landowner.

    If right wing areas are blocking renewables it’s far more likely to be done so it props up the fossil fuel/power generation companies and has little or nothing to do with any actual drawbacks of renewables or their installation.




  • They didn’t “solve” anything. It’s a private medical school with a sub 2% acceptance rate. The kind of people who are going to be attending a school like this are already likely to be far better off than most as many will have accomplished pre-med courses and extracurricular activities to stand out as well as have had financial, scholastic, and other support to have the grades necessary to have a shot at being accepted at such a school.

    IOW, exclusive school will likely mostly admit students from families wealthy enough to afford the best education and prep likely to be offered a slot at an exclusive school.

    The only thing I’ll grant is that people who do get to this school will have less debt if they are of lesser financial means.

    Nothing was “solved”.

    E: further thought: this “gift” is giving other mostly well off people a price break. If a lower income family with a student is at this school it’s probably the exception to the rule of who benefits from this gift.