• Flying SquidM
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      111 month ago

      I kissed a girl and I liked it, but as I’m a heterosexual man, that’s not especially transgressive.

      • @[email protected]
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        21 month ago

        Let’s be honest, two girls kissing, I have never seen anyone have an issue with that as long as they also kissed boys. Also kiss is a euphenism here. Yes lesbians were seen as wgtow and somewhat persecuted but bi-curious hetero girls? Absolutely never seen that even hinted at. In fact a lot of pop culture put that on a pedestal. Because it’s hot.

        • @captainlezbian
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          11 month ago

          Unavailability to men, real or perceived without monastic levels of chastity is often where the persecution comes in. It tends to be directed towards lesbians, but bi women often face it once they are seen as not partaking in men’s fetishization of them

          • @[email protected]
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            11 month ago

            Are bi women not seen as available? I mean, are they bi sexual if they don’t consider men as potential partners? It seems to me if they don’t, then they’re lesbians and yes I agree this is more stigmatized by the diseased culture.

            • @captainlezbian
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              31 month ago

              Well my friend’s wife is still very much bisexual despite being monogamously married to a woman.

              Another friend’s fiancée decided to stop pursuing men before she met her wife to be, but she remains attracted to men.

              My two friends in these situations are, like me, lesbians and just not attracted to men, as opposed to choosing not to pursue them for other reasons

    • @FelixCress
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      01 month ago

      How is your mum feeling about it?

      • @feedum_sneedson
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        11 month ago

        I don’t really talk to my mother, she’s an alcoholic.