• Semi-Hemi-Lemmygod
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    3120 days ago

    I’ve heard from a lot of women that a portion of men take any attempt to provide suggestions as a direct attack on their masculinity

    • @[email protected]
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      20 days ago

      Well that’s just two reasons not to date them since those guys all probably listen to Tate.

    • @inv3r510n
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      2320 days ago

      Not just men, I’m a lesbian and I’ve experienced this with women too. Some people are really sensitive to constructive criticism especially during intimacy.

      • @swordofdamocles
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        419 days ago

        especially during intimacy.

        Well that does make sense when you think about it. That’s when you’re at your most vulnerable. I personally wouldn’t mind because lust overpowers all of my other emotions during sex lmao. Though for some people, I think it would be best to talk about it after the deed is done.

        • @inv3r510n
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          218 days ago

          Yup that’s definitely why. And a lot of people other than the hyper sexual have a lot of insecurities around sex even if they didn’t grow up in a culture that made it taboo.

    • @namarupa
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      719 days ago

      This happens when providing suggestions to anyone about anything when you’re dealing with an insecure person.