• @Skyrmir
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    10615 hours ago

    Decent first step, but it’s going to take an actual investment in making parenthood desirable.

    • @[email protected]
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      5514 hours ago

      Parenthood is already desirable. There’s a biological drive and social conditioning to desire it for most people. The disincentives have just become overwhelming. Children take a hell of a lot of resources. Every aspect of modern society has drained all the time, money, energy, emotional resiliance, social support, etc that people need.

        • @TheTetrapod
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          13 hours ago

          Did you watch the new Tom Nicholas video, by chance?

      • TonyOstrich
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        2413 hours ago

        I’m logically aware that’s the case for other people, but I find it perplexing why often times. I was sterilized in my mid 20s, and I haven’t ever regretted it.

        • misty
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          1210 hours ago

          Same. I suspect fomo. I experience that for other things but I never bought that kids thing.