• @[email protected]
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    6720 hours ago

    Parenthood is already desirable. There’s a biological drive and social conditioning to desire it for most people. The disincentives have just become overwhelming. Children take a hell of a lot of resources. Every aspect of modern society has drained all the time, money, energy, emotional resiliance, social support, etc that people need.

    • @[email protected]
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      25 hours ago

      There are many other social factors that make parenthood undesirable in Japan that this does not address.

      • @TheTetrapod
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        09 hours ago

        Did you watch the new Tom Nicholas video, by chance?

    • TonyOstrich
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      2618 hours ago

      I’m logically aware that’s the case for other people, but I find it perplexing why often times. I was sterilized in my mid 20s, and I haven’t ever regretted it.

      • misty
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        1116 hours ago

        Same. I suspect fomo. I experience that for other things but I never bought that kids thing.