• UnderpantsWeevil
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    anybody who chooses Bear is CHOOSING THE BEAR

    But she’s getting both. Big brown bear and insufferably smug, demonstrably useless, petty and vindictive man.

    Bears are not kind to humans in their territory

    Bears generally leave you alone unless you’ve got food and they’re hungry… at which point, just give them your food and you’ll be fine. Despite millions of humans living in historical bear territory, you get only 2-5 actual attacks reported per year.

    Men can’t make this claim.

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      How many thousands of men have you interacted with and yet are still alive? Are you seriously suggesting you could interact with thousands of bears and have the same success rate? You’re manipulating the numbers in a very dishonest way.

      Nobody is scared of vending machines even though they kill more people than sharks, not because sharks are safer, but because almost nobody interacts with a shark but almost everyone has many safe interactions with a vending machine.

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        Have you never seen any report of how many women experience some form of sexual assault from men in their life? Because that’s higher than you think.

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        The question is satire. It’s a bit stupid to make agruments against it based on statistics.

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          It started as satire, perhaps, but I know woman who would literally rather go take their chances with a bear than a skeezy dude outside a bar following them to their car.

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        Lol, are you literally thinking the hypothetical includes all men? They aren’t going to run away from their father, brother, cousin, or the nice old man who runs the laundremat.

        It’s about predatory men. Men that want something from them - sex, a relationship, companionship. The way mamy men pursue this is often very sketchy and/or dangerous. Domestic violence against woman is extremely common.

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        How many thousands of men have you interacted with and yet are still alive?

        “I’ve never been in a conversation with someone who wasn’t alive, therefore death isn’t real.”

        Fucking baby-brain shit. Have you even developed object permanence yet?

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      It’s important that people understand this. I literally just earlier this year yelled at a 500 pound bear eating trash out of a garbage can. It walked away when I did this.

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      There have been 3 black bear attacks in the USA this year, all three fatal, and one brown bear attack, also fatal. I might also be missing some nonfatal attacks since theres not a well maintained list for those. Humans also generally leave you alone if you’re not in their immediate vicinity, I think it warrants assuming you’re not just on the same mountain as the bear.

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        There have been 3 bear attacks in the USA this year, all three fatal.

        Now do men.

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        Your mind is going to be blown when you find out about the number of man attacks this year.

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          Probably. It’s hard to research, though, since there’s so much material about how more and more kids are dying these days

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          There are also a lot more of them, and surprisingly they have more access to firearms and vehicles.

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        “Humans also generally leave you alone if you’re not in their immediate vicinity”

        You should talk to a women one day.

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          “Humans also generally leave you alone if you’re not in their immediate vicinity”

          You should talk to a women one day.

          I bet you haven’t even touched grass in 5 months.

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        you get only 2-5 *actual attacks* reported per year.

        There have been 3 black bear attacks in the USA this year, all three fatal, and one brown bear attack, also fatal.

        And is 3 + 1 within the range [2, 5]? I know it’s a tough question, but I have faith you can manage to figure it out!

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        Four is between two and five, though? Which is exactly what they said?

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          Are you telling me that’s not enough death to warrant caution? Imagine if there were 170 Million Bears, maybe thats a better visual for you to compare.

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            Are you really trying to present this argument as people saying you shouldn’t be cautious around bears? Have you lived around bears? Yeah, be cautious around bears - but that caution takes the form of “make sure you don’t surprise the bear”. Bears don’t want to be involved with you any more than you want to be involved with them. They will avoid you.

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              Bears don’t want to be involved with you any more than you want to be involved with them. They will avoid you.

              A perfect juxtaposition for incels!

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              I can’t tell if you’re thoroughly disingenuous or you actually can’t tell what this discussion is about. Involvement with the bear or avoidance of the bear were explicitly declared non-optional.

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                Honestly confused, do you mean in your initial comment you were asserting that the choices were either “interact with man” or “interact with bear”? Because if so that was never the premise of the initial question, and nobody else here appears to be discussing it like it was.

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                  The bear and man options are presented as equivalent, so you’re either interacting with either or simply on the same mountain as either, you can’t just pick and choose for each instance or the question needs to be reformatted.

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                    … The initial question doesn’t frame it like that, yes; however I don’t see anyone here implying it does, so I’m unclear on how it’s at all relevant. The initial question is “would you rather be in the woods alone with a bear or with a man you didn’t know” - being alone in the woods with a bear is an extremely common thing (I was alone in the woods with countless bears not moments ago when I stepped outside), and the risks carried by either option are the entire point of the question.

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                You are missing the point of the original experiment, and continue to misdirect the discussion into your predeterminted views.

                So again, fuck you for that.

                The only thing that matters is that “some MEN ARE A DANGER TO WOMEN”.

                Disregarding that you only support the attackers. Simple as.

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                  You’ve actually perfectly encapsulated my point that your personal bias has caused a random and illogical dismissal of the potential harm a bear can cause. It’s like bears don’t exist at all in your mind, the options are men or not men to you.

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                    Nobody, and I do mean NOBODY cares about bears. Everyone knows they can and will kill you.

                    But that’s the upside: an understood and agreed danger.

                    Men can and will kill men and women, in great numbers every year. And people choose to ignore that.

                    Like, I don’t know, derailing conversations to talk about bears.

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            Yet men killing a shit ton more women than that per year isn’t a good enough reason to warrant caution? Statistically the bear is still safer.

            Edit: You also don’t have to falsely inflate the population of men to create a hyperbolic fantasy situation to justify choosing the bear.

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              Explain how the bear is statistically safer; you would need to factor in not just total incidences, but total interactions, otherwise it’s a sharpshooter fallacy.

              The average woman likely has tens of thousands of hours with strange men and no incident, and it would be extremely surprising that the bear stats would be better than that.

              I wouldn’t be surprised that even if you only selected men convicted of violence on women, the bears would still be statistically more dangerous (or it would at least be a somewhat close comparison).

              This is getting into the weeds a bit though and not really in the spirit of the original question.

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            no i can’t. i can only imagine two million bears in a large space, like say the washington dc mall. that’s the most i can realistically comprehend. two million shirtless bears. would someone get me a mai tai?

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        I can’t tell if this a serious comment. There were only three in the entire United States? God damn dude, maybe I’ll take the bear as well… And I’m a guy.

        I guess you’ve sold us all on how much better the bear is. For the record, I encountered a bear earlier this year and yelled at it. It walked away.