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    OP is only recently 18. Sexual partner is over 50. It’s not 100% sunshine and roses.

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      that’s two consenting adults enjoying each others’ company. the sunshine and roses level isn’t really anyone’s business but theirs

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        Gives me the ick. Serious Trump vibes.

        The whole “daddy, please tell the bodyguards to bonk me, they’re refusing because they think you’ll sack them!” thing and the “daddy please can I bonk one of your middle aged chums?” stuff is all more than weird to me.

        She comes across as happy and knowing exactly what she wants, so that’s a positive, but I think her dad has a very weak ‘no’ game and has had for years and years. Not everything that we want at 18 is good for us. Only a handful of months ago she was a literal child.

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          Gives me the ick.

          That’s your ick, not theirs.

          At some point you need to acknowledge that every detail of their relationship you’re imagining, you’ve invented from zero other information in order to gross yourself out.

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            I’m not imagining any details at all, and the quotes I have are paraphrased from violet’s previous posts, possibly from her old username.

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          the thing is you gotta draw the adulthood line somewhere and just let young adults have sexual autonomy

          OP may or may not be having a healthy relationship that they may or may not regret later but they’re well within their right to point out that that’s nobody’s business but their own and they shouldn’t be getting unsolicited judgment for it

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            My opinion is that posting anything publicly enough that I hear about it is at the very least a de facto invitation for my opinion on it. That would be different if it were e.g. paparazzi reporting on the potentially private affairs of the wealthy and famous.