I’m beginning to accept that I may never be in a relationship again. There are life expectations I have for myself, some admittedly selfish, but really, the idea of having to deal with another grownup who is as obstinate as I am has left me disillusioned about relationships. But I want to have kids. I want to be a father. For women, its fairy easy, go to a sperm bank, pick your choice, get the procedure done and you are on your way. What is the process for dudes? I believe its going to involve a surrogate, but where does one get a donor egg and what not? I am not looking to have a relationship with an egg donor or the surrogate, just me and the kids.

  • GoatSynagogue
    214·
    15 days ago

    An adult who can’t even imagine having to deal with another adult should not be having kids alone. Kids are 100x harder to deal with than adults.

    • Dr. MooseEnglish
      62·
      15 days ago

      Yeah OP is giving incel and should get therapy rather than a kid lol

      • jpreston2005
        54·
        15 days ago

        I doubt you’d say something so repulsive about a single woman that wanted kids 🙄

        • Apytele@sh.itjust.works
          3·
          15 days ago

          Conservatives say that all the time. They blame them for overutilizing food stamps in particular. Campaigning against single mothers keeping their children away from their fathers been one of their main arguments against social services for literal decades.

        • Dr. MooseEnglish
          52·
          15 days ago

          I would if they framed it like this. I find all genders of incels equally repulsive though admittedly I do think life is more unjust thus my judgement is more lenient.

          • jpreston2005
            13·
            15 days ago

            damn, you’re giving major incel vibes, projection much?