It does, but not in a flattering way. You default to equating sex and gender because thinking about constructs is hard, instead asserting that they are exactly the same thing. I don’t expect everyone to need that level of understanding. However, this doesn’t mean I need to value your view. A person who hasn’t learned to do multiplication doesn’t need to be listened to when they claim 8x8 can’t be 64.
Most younger trans people consider themselves transGENDER, not transSEXUAL. Most trans women don’t focus on changing their sex to female, as that distinction doesn’t most of the time. Someone’s gender determines if they are female in most scenarios. Some people can pass as male and female through specific presentation, being seen as either gender by themselves and everyone else.
My comment about, “a happy and flourishing life,” was pointing out how philosophers have known for thousands of years that most people don’t question things, making fun of people that do. The specific reference is to the concept in ancient Greece of Eudaimonia, a term slightly different from happiness that philosophers like Socrates, Plato, and Aristotle thought of as the thing everyone should strive for. Of course, Socrates was executed because Athenians got tired of him poking holes in their beliefs. People don’t want to think critically, and trying to question common assumptions gets dismissed as “cultish woo woo.”
If there is nothing wrong or dangerous about the modern view of gender, why should we cling to the old view instead? The new view has fewer contradictions than the old view while letting trans and cis people alike live better lives. Forcing the old view onto trans people can be lethal, and strict gender divisions limit life for both men and women. It forces women to be subservient to men, while men are told to be disposable machines without feelings. The old norms are a prison for everyone, while the modern view encourages everyone to live their own life.
Well said. There has to be a way to bridge this conversation but somehow it seems to make people really uncomfortable, which is understandable. I just wish people would start with questions instead of taking the world for granted.
It does, but not in a flattering way. You default to equating sex and gender because thinking about constructs is hard, instead asserting that they are exactly the same thing. I don’t expect everyone to need that level of understanding. However, this doesn’t mean I need to value your view. A person who hasn’t learned to do multiplication doesn’t need to be listened to when they claim 8x8 can’t be 64.
Most younger trans people consider themselves transGENDER, not transSEXUAL. Most trans women don’t focus on changing their sex to female, as that distinction doesn’t most of the time. Someone’s gender determines if they are female in most scenarios. Some people can pass as male and female through specific presentation, being seen as either gender by themselves and everyone else.
My comment about, “a happy and flourishing life,” was pointing out how philosophers have known for thousands of years that most people don’t question things, making fun of people that do. The specific reference is to the concept in ancient Greece of Eudaimonia, a term slightly different from happiness that philosophers like Socrates, Plato, and Aristotle thought of as the thing everyone should strive for. Of course, Socrates was executed because Athenians got tired of him poking holes in their beliefs. People don’t want to think critically, and trying to question common assumptions gets dismissed as “cultish woo woo.”
If there is nothing wrong or dangerous about the modern view of gender, why should we cling to the old view instead? The new view has fewer contradictions than the old view while letting trans and cis people alike live better lives. Forcing the old view onto trans people can be lethal, and strict gender divisions limit life for both men and women. It forces women to be subservient to men, while men are told to be disposable machines without feelings. The old norms are a prison for everyone, while the modern view encourages everyone to live their own life.
Well said. There has to be a way to bridge this conversation but somehow it seems to make people really uncomfortable, which is understandable. I just wish people would start with questions instead of taking the world for granted.