We’re closing this thread. Everything that could be said has been said. Thank you
Original Post:
Today, we want to inform everyone that we have decided to defederate from https://exploding-heads.com/. We understand that defederating should always be a last resort, and individuals can certainly block communities. However, blocking alone does not prevent potential harm to vulnerable communities.
After carefully reviewing the instance, reported posts, and multiple comments from the community, we have concluded that exploding-heads is not adhering to the Lemmy or Citizen Code of Conduct. Therefore, we cannot, in good faith, continue to federate with an instance that consistently promotes hate, racism, and bullying.
Examples:
https://lemmy.world/post/577526 - Community Moderator Harassment
https://exploding-heads.com/post/92194 - Systemadmin Post
https://exploding-heads.com/post/90780 - Systemadmin Post
https://exploding-heads.com/post/91488 - Systemadmin Post
https://exploding-heads.com/post/93725 - Community Moderator Post
Again, deciding to defederate from an instance is not taken lightly. In the future, we will continue to review instances on a case-by-case bases.
As for our community, please refrain from posting or commenting with hateful words as well. Arguing back and calling people names is not the solution. The best course of action is to report the posts or comments violating our server rules.
Lemmy Code of Conduct
https://join-lemmy.org/docs/code_of_conduct.html
Citizen Code of Conduct https://github.com/stumpsyn/policies/blob/master/citizen_code_of_conduct.md
“We are committed to providing a friendly, safe, and welcoming environment for all, regardless of level of experience, gender identity and expression, sexual orientation, disability, personal appearance, body size, race, ethnicity, age, religion, nationality, or other similar characteristic.”
I just love how we are reminded to observe the simple rules here. That’s great. ;)
Originally reddit was very observant on what they called rediquette. But I honestly don’t recall seeing it mentioned for the past 5 years.
As things degraded and rediquette was more and more needed, instead of reminding each other of it, it seems to have disappeared.
Enforcing Reddiquette would mean less trolling, which is bad for Reddit because anger fuels engagement.
Yes, the recipe for twitter and facebook too.
I hope that the fact that this is a community not run for profit, means we will be better, and remember to behave with decency.
I must admit it happened I got sucked in, so I ended up deleting my reddit account a couple of years ago.
deleted by creator
I think it was a typo, but fund is actually quite appropriate. Plenty of forums back in the day were funded by donations and ads. No ad aggregators though, so in the best forums you only got ads from quality, community relevant, vetted services. Membership meant something because your dimes literally kept the lights on.
I don’t like this “pay with your privacy and dignity” world that social media threw us in.
I remember SMW Central having small, non-intrusive, user-created paid banners at the top. I always make an ad blocker exception for them.
Those days were also nice because there was no DDoS protection, if they pissed you off enough (or enough other people) you could strike them off the Internet with enough bandwith and peers. Ah good times.
Ah, yes, the golden days of cancel culture
/s
That would be today, right now, this post in particular
deleted by creator
Reddiquette and the disclosing of how much server time was paid for by Reddit gold. Both previously disclosed to the users and now missing.