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    8 months ago

    Kinda? It’s not exactly like that, but close enough. You can always stick something up there and get a feel for it yourself, ya know.

    Edit: So I can’t stop thinking about this and had to come back to this post: Does it feel different for a woman? Like, they don’t have prostates, so would anal not feel as good? Or is the G-spot/skenes (whatever that raspberry feeling chunk of nerves inside the vagina is called) situated such that it’s more or less the same? 🤔

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      8 months ago

      Friendly reminder to make sure whatever you’re sticking up there has a flared base so you don’t end up with an embarrassing A&E visit.

      • @the_grass_trainer
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        318 months ago

        I don’t care for the A&E channel, so hopefully they have something else when i arrive.

      • @Betch
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        8 months ago

        Or you could just find yourself freaking out at 7am with your arm up your ass all the way to the elbow trying to grab that cute heart shaped buttplug that was way too small and somehow just kept crawling further and further up your ass while praying that you won’t have to go to the ER. That’s cool too.

          • @werefreeatlast
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            98 months ago

            Or a banana because if you peeled it it would be just fine, and if you didn’t, you could just pull the peal out and then it would be totally fine.

          • @HeyThisIsntTheYMCA
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            38 months ago

            My garden doesn’t grow any flared cucumbers, but I know a cucumber scientist/engineer (no, really) so I’ll get back to you in 3 to 5 generations.

      • @MJKee9
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        238 months ago

        Without a base… Without a trace… Thank you jjgo!

      • @stoicmaverick
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        208 months ago

        Whatever. I saw a video of a guy sat on a mason jar one time and NOTHING BAD HAPPENED… Or that’s how I remember it anyway.

          • Rob T Firefly
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            28 months ago

            For when it’s on broadcast TV.

        • @[email protected]
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          18 months ago

          Fun fact I like to bring up every time I see this referenced: He started with coke bottles in his bathtub, he continues his glass in ass activities after he healed up, and his wife is very supportive. Read an interview with him back in the good ol’ days of bestgore yore.

          • @stoicmaverick
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            18 months ago

            Well now I want to read an interview with his wife. I think I actually have MORE questions for her than him.

    • @[email protected]
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      68 months ago

      I’m not opposed to the idea but it doesn’t seem like the kind of thing you can just try one time. Isn’t there some kind of preparation phase to be able to handle …“stuff”?

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        8 months ago

        The three most important things, are

        1. A good wash, and optionally a little bit of douching (extra fancy guide) if you want to push it

        2. Lube. However much you think you need, more than that. Simple oils can work fine. Soap is horrible. Store bought water lube is best.

        3. Having fun, a relaxed exploratory afternoon 😊

        • @Meron35
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          98 months ago

          For 2. spend the time and do a “spot” test similar to laundry detergents. Some lubes can be very irritating and burn (usually the really cheap ones). It can be somewhat confusing because both the physical stretch and substance irritation feel like a burning sensation.

        • @Whippygoatcream
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          28 months ago

          I personally prefer silicone-based lube for back door play. Lasts a LOT longer, doesn’t get sticky (can get dry, but nowhere near as quickly as water-based, in which case, just apply more lube,) and the overall glide just feels better imo. Clean-up is a little bit more intensive. Just a light scrub with soap and warm water, instead of a quick rinse or wipe. Toy play is a good warm-up. Just make sure your toy is specifically compatible with silicone-based lube or else you risk major problems.

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            8 months ago

            That’s cool, but it’s a pretty advanced recommendation (at least where I live, stores don’t stock it, so it’s a little bit more of an investment).

            Helping someone new to all this, by making it easy for them to start, is what I would have wanted to have someone do when I was starting out 😅

      • @Graphy
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        128 months ago

        Pretend you’re in high school again and just use spit

        • dream_weasel
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          28 months ago

          Idk what you mean, in high school my spit jar was barely half full. Now I have enough saved up to do whatever I want, but only because I didn’t waste it early.

    • @[email protected]
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      18 months ago

      An acquaintance of mine had his prostate removed due to cancer and he confirmed that butt sex no longer feels pleasurable. I imagine it’s the same for women.

      • @angrystego
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        48 months ago

        So now the important question is: Does pooping feel different for men and women?