• @rockSlayer
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    9822 days ago

    it only gets better if you make it better. Organize a union at your workplace

      • @rockSlayer
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        622 days ago

        I like giving real solutions to these kinds of problems :)

  • Dr. Wesker
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    5422 days ago

    What kind of degenerate sleeps without the head of their bed up against a wall?

        • @[email protected]
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          3722 days ago

          When you get bedbugs and want to prevent them from getting on your bed (after treatment, say) you pull your bed away from the wall, thus limiting the surfaces they can transfer from. If you also put your bedposts in interceptor traps you’re pretty safe from them. They’ll get stuck in the traps and be unable to get out.

          Source: had to deal with the bastards for a year because of a useless landlord and incompetent exterminator. Got really, really good at pest management.

            • @Illuminostro
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              I’m lazy, I just nuke the site from orbit. It’s the only way to be sure.

          • @Alteon
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            322 days ago

            I heard that they can climb to the ceiling and drop down. Not sure how true it is, but helps to enforce how nightmarish they are, like they are some sort of unstoppable entity.

            • @[email protected]
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              422 days ago

              I’ve heard that too, but it seems pretty unlikely and I never experienced it when I had bedbugs. Plus it would have to be a pregnant(?) bedbug to continue to spread the infestation, otherwise the rare one that dropped on the bed would be stuck there and eventually die…

            • @[email protected]
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              222 days ago

              I dunno if they’re quite that smart. If they are, they didn’t do that when I had them.

          • @EvacuateSoul
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            222 days ago

            Right, but in that case you could get a frame with a headboard.

            • @[email protected]
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              222 days ago

              A headboard touching the ground just invites them in. If the headboard is removable, remove it temporarily.

              • @EvacuateSoul
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                222 days ago

                They are mounted to the same frame you said you put on the trap stands.

                • @[email protected]
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                  322 days ago

                  Yes, but some are removable. If you can’t remove it you’re pretty much screwed - good luck getting a headboard inside of an interceptor trap. Just the bedposts, wheels, or whatever the frame has go into the traps. Basically you need to limit the access they have from wherever they’re hiding to your bed.

      • @[email protected]
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        1422 days ago

        But then Monsters can attack you from any angle - Bed in the corner gang sleeping back to the wall.

          • @[email protected]
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            522 days ago

            Wtf next thing you’re going to say you sleep with your arm hanging off the side of the bed or your feet sticking over the edge. I’m surprised you’re still alive.

          • @Land_Strider
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            222 days ago

            What a mad lad. Is it possible to learn this power?

            • @[email protected]
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              I guess just move your bed to the middle of the room and wait until you get used to it. I’m not sure about the subconscious/sleeping part… Maybe it’ll just happen naturally over time?

    • @Mango
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      Me. I don’t need my bed clapping against the wall alerting my incredibly nosy neighbors to my evening activities.

  • ferret
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    4022 days ago

    Suck dick for a living. Much more free time.

    • @BluesF
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      I prefer to be choosy about the dicks I suck

      • ferret
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        2122 days ago

        Ok then no more gaming for you mr. wontsuckdickformoney

        • @BluesF
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          That’s Ms Sucksthechoicestdicksforcashonly to you

    • @Mango
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      I can’t really be bothered to do my own marketing and STD vetting.

  • @[email protected]
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    3922 days ago

    Stay up longer. Wake up tired. Do your job really half-assed all day. Let your employer have the worse you.

    • @[email protected]
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      Did this while younger, it can work for some time but don’t underestimate the consequences to your health from not getting enough sleep.

  • @[email protected]
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    3322 days ago

    Hah they still actually look forward to playing the game, instead of just playing it to fill the time.

    • Sabata
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      I buy them to pretend I’m happy. Not that I have time to be happy.

  • @[email protected]
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    3022 days ago

    Get up at 6. Work will 6. 1hr to make dinner. 2 hrs awake with wife. Go to bed at 9. Wake up at 530 and cry for 30 min.

    Rerpeat adinfinium until i finally die. This is no way to live.

    • @ameancow
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      This is no way to live.

      I wonder what would happen if everyone who felt this way all at once just decided to stop. All at once, everyone turns around and goes home. How many people would it be? Half? 3/4? Most of them?

      We almost got to experience a change when Covid hit, the only bright spot, but it was soon eclipsed by corporate buzzwords and inspirational music montages on powerpoint telling us how happy we are to return to offices and ten hours of driving and 1/8 of our paycheck on gas every goddamn week so we can sit in a visible place while we waste time reading emails that don’t pertain to us and attending meetings about initiatives that are meant only to make the shareholders think we’re doing something.

      Shareholders who attend the meetings via Zoom at that.

    • @[email protected]
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      If you move out to the country you can retire in a very comfortable air conditioned tent on a fully self-sufficient one-acre farm for like $8k, and that includes the cost of the land.

      You could afford to work part time remotely and still live a life of luxury compared to our ancestors.

      Why are you working for hours every day just to give all that money to some landlord? Move off-grid and enjoy your life. If more people did that, the supply of work would decrease and unions could negotiate for higher pay for less hours.

      • @ameancow
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        I’m working towards just this, not a tent necessarily but a very small house/shack, gonna get some dogs and chickens and probably work at a local grocery or do art until I die.

        I am not making much progress. I wonder who tf is buying houses.

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          I’m working towards just this, not a tent necessarily but a very small house/shack

          Nice, good luck! My uncle lives in a tiny home out in the boonies, and seems to enjoy it. He grows beans and sells fridge magnets on Etsy.

          You could buy a place like this in full, with some solar panels, a bed, and mini-fridge after two years and some change working minimum wage. It’s not glamorous at all but it’s a chill af way to live life away from all the stress.

          I wonder who tf is buying houses.

          I know it’s a rhetorical question, but 50% of millennials own a home in the US, mostly in small rural areas and suburbs.

          Both capitalists and tankies want you to believe that you have to work until you die, but it’s just not true. Don’t give in to the doomers!

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        You could afford to work part time remotely

        If you’re a professional that even has that option. Factory workers and blue collar schmucks like myself are chained to a radius around available work :(

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          The point is to avoid work. Just live off the land and enjoy your life. You can sell fridge magnets on Etsy like my uncle.

      • @nomous
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        Find me land for $8k within reasonable distance of an area with tech jobs please.

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            The point is to work less not avoid work completely. I’m unable to work 100% remotely for the time being, rural internet is still a joke most places.

            I’m just saying it’s not so simple and still requires an incredible amount of work, saving, and sacrifice to “just retire to an acre and get some chickens.”

  • @[email protected]
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    2122 days ago

    This is 100% truth.

    When you’re young, you have a lot of free time and no money to enjoy that time

    When you get into a career, you have money, and no time.

    When you retire, you have money and time (to some extent), but you’re old and likely not able to enjoy things nearly as much as you would have been able to when you were younger (generally due to body aches and whatnot).

    Being middle/lower “class”, you’re basically fucked.

    • @thejoker954
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      So so much worse :(

      I find myself avoiding a lot of games because I know they will suck me in too much.

  • plaidman
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    No but it does get worse after you have kids. Ah who am I kidding, this is a greentext post.

    • @ClockworkOtter
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      But then you get kids. Definitely better than video games.

      • @Aermis
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        Father of 3 kids under 6, I still play an hour or so a day, some weekends I get a night to play with friends.

        And I have time for work in commercial electrician. Come home to work on my garden, chickens, greenhouse, and hang with the kids and family.

        Going to be doing my own solar in the next week or two. Tonight going to a mtg mh3 event with a friend to play some magic.

        All weekend to chill with my children, wife, and enjoy some parks. Once kids are asleep I’ll watch a movie with my wife.

        Life is good. Time for everything.

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          Are you guys dual income though? How do you have time to keep your home clean? I don’t even have kids but with full time work I struggle.

          • @Aermis
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            I’m full time (40 hours) and my wife is a stay at home mom. She might work in the summer for delta airlines as a gate agent but that’s if the season allows for it. Either way that income is less than $5k for the year so it’s not for the money, but the flight benefits.

            The home being clean… Well we let a lot of things get surface dirty because cleaning after the kids is a full time job in and of itself. We’ll deep clean once a week, dishes are cleaned right away, toys after you’re done, beds, sheets, carpets and deep floor weekly. We got a system. My wife does an amazing job. I make sure our vacuums work lol.

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              Agree on the taking care of the place full time job piece! My partner and I are just starting to think about kids, and are most worried about the extra work in making sure things stay clean enough to be safe.

              Granted, I’ve had a whole lot of health issues (just completed surgery 5/5 in the last 5 years) so a lot of home maintenance fell by the wayside. We’re also both full time (42 hours minimum) and on top of that I have at least 4 medical appointments weekly still, so we are just in the process of getting a system going.

              Thank you for sharing what works for you!

              • @Aermis
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                Oh wow yeah that sounds like a hand full. Health becomes a problem for us. If one of us gets sick for a few days it gets pretty rough. We don’t have too much time to go out, and my wife and I haven’t really went on too many dates since our 3rd was born. But we’re both on the same page that it’s part of the season we’re in. I’m busy maybe 3 days a week and that already makes it rough, but I can’t imagine if my week was full of appointments.

                Don’t worry about being too clean for the kids. The first one is always going to be the learning curve, and we’ve been there with the ultra clean everything. Germs and chokeables. Now on our 3rd we’re a lot more lax, being more observant when it’s necessary. But you will drive yourself crazy picking every speck off the ground lol.

                But ultimately my wife and I are a team. And if there’s anything that becomes too hard for us it’s because we weren’t on the same page about it. Life moves forward. Children are the best thing that ever happened to us. And our hobbies didn’t disappear, we got new ones and old ones either aren’t interesting anymore or adapted to fit. You’ll never be 100% ready. If you and your partner want children, let that child grow with you.

      • @[email protected]
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        Yep I got one and videogames aren’t even in my radar. I don’t even have a gaming computer anymore

  • @[email protected]
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    It’s easy! Just take 100% of your free time and throw it away on a far-off dream so you’re completely exhausted. Go into debt trying to get a fancy degree to maybe increase your earning potential.

    More seriously, if you feel you’re in the same position:
    If you’re privileged enough and have the willpower, you might be able to find a happier work environment (though it requires sacrificing your already meager free time by searching for jobs constantly for 6-12 months or more). I know folks for whom that’s paid off - very impressed with them. May also be some online courses or community colleges around that could open doors.

    If your situation is impossible, I’m sorry. I feel for you.

    • @John_McMurray
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      Fucking pathetic. I hope you don’t actually feel this way, mindset is literally the biggest obstacle.

      • @[email protected]
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        Feel what way?

        I am privileged and happy. I do believe folks who are not happy should consider investing their time understanding other potential available opportunities including work, training, and higher education.

        Obviously a, say, severely disabled person whose paycheck is captured by their abusive partner cannot apply my advice, so in that nearly impossible situation I sympathize.

      • @Buddahriffic
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        Seeing reality for what it is and not giving up is the opposite of pathetic. Pathetic is assuming someone who sees life that way is going to be overcome by their mindset. Denial isn’t necessary to function.

  • @MrJameGumb
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    He only has two hours after work before he has to go to sleep? That’s like a 70 hour work week!

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      I mean you still have to get home first, then probably cook and eat something, shower, etc.
      All of that takes time as well

      • @Chev
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        I have about 3h of gaming after work during the week. So the meme is pretty accurate about this part. But I also have free weekends, enough vacation time and a job that doesn’t drain much energy. So I’m fine currently.

      • @Sanctus
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        Can confirm. I am currently in the meme.

    • CronyAkatsuki
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      At my last job I had barelly 30 mins if lucky, used to work for almost 80 hours a week and at tikes worked up to 12 days straight with no days off.

      All for a barelly 800 euro pay.

    • @undergroundoverground
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      He should sell his instant work-teleportation device for money instead of working

    • @undergroundoverground
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      I mean if anything, surely that justifies their claim of wage slavery even more no?

      • @[email protected]
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        Indeed, and I’m not saying his pain doesn’t exist, but I am making it very clear that it can be much much worse.

    • @yokonzo
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      Easier said than done

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          Trust me, i would LOVE to enjoy my 10 hour manual labor workday at the only employer that pays that well in a 50 mile radius, but call me cynical, I find it quite difficult

          • @[email protected]
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            Can you consider moving to a better place? I understand you might have things going you down but it’s good to evaluate your options

            • @berryjam
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              This is the kind of thing that’s easy to say but hard to do

            • @yokonzo
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              Yeah Ive thought about it, that’s not something I can even consider though until I wipe out some debts and save up