Lets take a little break from politics and have us a real atheist conversation.

Personally, I’m open to the idea of the existence of supernatural phenomena, and I believe mainstream religions are actually complicated incomplete stories full of misinterpretations, misunderstandings, and half-truths.

Basically, I think that these stories are not as simple and straightforward as they seem to be to religious people. I feel like there is a lot more to them. Concluding that all these stories are just made up or came out of nowhere is kind of hard for me.

  • @[email protected]
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    I fully believe there’s something beyond our 3 spatial dimensions we call reality. What that is, I don’t know. Does it have sentience, I doubt. I also think these things fall into unknowables, things each individual will develop a different feel for, and should be deeply personal.

  • FuglyDuck
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    “Supernatural” is just unexplained, or misunderstood, natural phenomena.

    I’ve spent years working in supposedly haunted buildings (as security.)

    the guy who loves sharing his ghost story really didn’t appreciate being told that the “fleeting man” he saw apparitions of, were his own reflection (specifically in a corner window of a conference room, or in certain circumstances, in double-paned windows.)

    Nor did he appreciate being told the ghost “walking” down the stairwell was really just the fire sprinkler standpipe clunking against the stairs as the building cooled off. (And the reason it happened around the same time every night was the building’s hvac being set to a lower temp to save energy.)

    He most certainly didn’t enjoy being told that the doors closing in his face were caused by shorts in the magnetic door holders and that he really should have put that in his report (he was written up for not reporting a maintenance issue.)

    He also got written up when we found out that he was leaving windows cracked in the space above him, but he wrote them off as ghosts screaming instead of the wind whistling through a slightly cracked window.

    Our understanding of the universe is imperfect- and it probably always will be. The point of science is to improve that understanding using evidence and experimentation.

    I’ll take science any day of the week.

  • Flying Squid
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    While James Randi was alive, he offered $1,000,000 for proof of the supernatural. He never got that proof. I think that’s pretty telling.

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      There’s stuff I’ve experienced that I can’t understand or explain. Certainly, I trust other’s witnesses of their own experiences, even if they seem supernatural to me. But, I don’t consider that good enough evidence to believe in the supernatural.

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        There are all kinds of things in my life I have experienced that I cannot explain. For one thing, I am not an expert on everything. For another, I am a prisoner inside a skull that has to rely on not especially precise equipment in terms of sensory input. In other words, the meat sacks in our heads cannot be trusted. In fact, going back to Randi, if they could be trusted, Randi and other magicians would never have a job.

        None of that is evidence for the supernatural.

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      Let me preface this by saying I tend to go with the Null hypothesis until proven otherwise, and as such don’t believe in the unproven supernatural.

      Regardless, there are two ways to interpret James Randi never getting proof.

      1. There are no provable supernatural claims.
      2. Those who could prove a supernatural claim have no use for some reason a $1,000,000 prize would not be sufficiently enticing.

      Edit: Reworked #2 for accuracy and clarity. Added wording in italics.

      • Flying Squid
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        Re number. 2, they must also either be ignorant of the existence of charities or can’t think of a single one that could use that $1,000,000 they would have no use for. So I don’t accept that.

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          Perhaps. Though it’s entirely conceivable that the cost of revealing said supernatural proof would be detrimental to their life in such a way that no use of a $1,000,000 would justify it. Or, ala Mr. Manhattan, they have lost their empathy and/or worldly concern. Or they could just be massive dicks who could make $1,000,000 easier if their secret is kept, like Hayden Christensen in Jumper.

          So I stand by my point that only looking at James Randi’s $1,000,000 prize as proof that “there are no supernatural claims that can be proven” is an example of sampling bias.

          Assuming the correctness of a hypothesis without sufficiently disproving potentially valid alternatives is how we wound up with the acceptance of the supernatural. It’s just bad epistemology.

          Regardless, I believe that James Randi’s offer, combined with the lack of any other provable and sufficiently documented supernatural occurrences means it’s more than reasonable to not hold any belief in the supernatural. I certainly don’t myself.

          ETA: 3. I suppose a third possibility is they were unable/unwilling to travel or were entirely unaware of said prize. Something like a “hermetic monk” for example.

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    • 60% the person experiencing it misunderstood or misinterpreted what they were looking at because they were stupid and gullible, but not maliciously making things up.

    • 35% completely fabricated and never happened and created to legitimately defraud or troll others.

    • 5% something scientific that we simply don’t understand yet.

    • 0% actual supernatural occurrences.

    • @surewhynotlem
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      That 5% is the most exciting thing in the world.

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        There’s a whole crap tonne about the universe we really don’t understand yet; especially when you get down to the quantum level, spooky action at a distance, wave functions, etc…

        In a very real way, we’re still just cavemen banging on rocks as far as the sum total knowledge of how things work out there in what we call “reality”. So within that vast gap of what we know, and what we don’t know, there’s could be a lot of things going on.

        Is that a ghost? or is that a momentary glitch in the fabric of space-time? Or is it just someone mistaking a cars headlight bouncing of a chandelier and into a door that is ajar at just the right angle. One of those theories is provable using the scientific method and the knowledge that we currently have. One of those theories might eventually be able to be proven with knowledge that we don’t yet possess. And one of those theories is so-called “supernatural”.

        As a reasonable human with critical thinking skills, I’ll put my money on either of the last ones before I’ll put my money on the first.

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          “Provable”? Nah. I prefer “useful”.

          This desire for “Truth” is strange to me. I see no necessary connection between ideas and phenomena.

          • @[email protected]
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            Lies can be useful. They cal also be dangerous.

            Preferring possible usefulness to truth is alarming.

          • Adderbox76
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            I see no necessary connection between ideas and phenomena

            That’s fair enough. You’re welcome to live however you want to. I’m just explaining the difference between science and mysticism. It’s not going to affect the average person’s life in any fashion whether they believe in ghosts or not; they’ll still go to work, buy groceries, get old and die.

            But the rejection of science leads inexorably down to a path where a cult of ignorance starts to form; where those who aren’t intellectually curious but still want to have an opinion on stuff start to think that their opinion is just as valid as actual facts. And we see what happens when that kind of willful ignorance works its way into the public discourse.

            In short, you’re welcome to not differentiate between ideas and actual scientific phenomena. But someone has to, because society only functions when decisions are made by people who share the same basic knowledge of reality.

  • @satanmat
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    Paraphrasing I believe — Any sufficiently advanced technology is indistinguishable from magic

    No nothing is “supernatural “. We may not yet know what we’re seeing or exactly what happened… we simply don’t understand it yet.

    Yet is relevant point there IMHO. We will.

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      and not understanding how something functions isnt a reason to assign intent or awareness to the thing.

    • @aLaStOr_MoOdY47OP
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      But there is also a possibility that what we don’t understand transcends the laws of nature. That’s what supernatural means. A possibility that our universe is also governed by supernatural forces, as much as it is governed by natural forces.

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        If something can “transcend” the laws of nature, then the ability to do that is part of the laws of nature, and thus it transcends nothing. We just didn’t know all of the rules.

        If ghosts are real, then they aren’t breaking the rules of nature because clearly the rules of nature allow for ghosts, we just don’t understand how yet, but then ghosts are natural.

        By definition, anything real is natural, and anything supernatural is not.

        • @aLaStOr_MoOdY47OP
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          But we still need the word “supernatural” to describe such things. Otherwise, what do we call the phenomena?

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            The difference is that science is observable and testable, god is not. This key difference, changes it from being a fallacy.

            So, in the god of the gaps fallacy it goes like this:

            • GotG: Something unknown = GOD!
            • Science: Something unknown = “We don’t know!”
            • GotG: Ghosts = GOD!!
            • Science: Ghosts = “We need a way to reliably test and confirm!”

            Science isn’t anti-god either. It’s just pro-knowledge. Observable, testable, verifiable knowledge.

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              Science isn’t anti-god either. It’s just pro-knowledge. Observable, testable, verifiable knowledge.

              This part. If ghosts are observable, testable, and verifiable, then we would have a way of measuring things. Maybe ghosts are 4th dimensional entities. It’s very possible they are real and it’s purely something we haven’t been able to measure thus far.

              Science gets stuff wrong all the time. The point of science is to be adapting and learning. And part of that involves verifying credibility of a new source of information.

              Unfortunately, almost all of the sources of “proof” of things like ghosts are heavily biased in favor of proving things over disproving, and there are a lot of people throwing clear scams into the mix. Science needs to go in with an open mind. “I want ghosts to be real, and the wind moved this door, therefore it was a ghost” is not valid proof of ghosts.

              https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WohbNt18wNs Things like this. A pastor that can walk on air, which is clearly fake. If the pastor believed he could walk on air, why would he fake it. This is not proof that people CAN’T walk on air, but it’s a great example of why when someone claims they can, you should figure out why lying about it benefits them (this guy clearly wants more people to tithe to his church).

              GotG benefits from the default being “GOD!” for all things, because it leaves them in power. Science has no benefit from anything except the truth. Sure there will be liars in science as well and a lot of people will optimistically want to believe the lies if they sound nice, but looking at things like LK-99, it winds up disproven when it’s a lie. Capitalism and industry don’t care about your fake superconductor. That doesn’t benefit them, they only care about real superconductors.

          • @aLaStOr_MoOdY47OP
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            Saying that I’m making a god of the gaps argument would also mean that you are making a science of the gaps argument.

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              Except, when you fill the gaps with science, you have evidence and proof. Not superstition and ancient myth.

      • @satanmat
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        Er um— no.

        There is nothing that is “supernatural “

        There is nothing that is proven and repeated not beholden to the laws of nature.

        Yes it is possible, but there isn’t any proof of anything transcending nature. You’re making a “god of the gaps” argument. It is illogical to assume that god or anything supernatural keeps getting smaller and smaller so as to hide in those ever shrinking gaps.

        • @aLaStOr_MoOdY47OP
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          But we need a name to describe such extraordinary events. If you erase it, what do we call such phenomena? There’s a reason why the word exists. Also, saying that I’m making a god of the gaps argument would also mean that you are making a science of the gaps argument, where you assume that science will always have an answer, and that it is the only truth. It’s why I believe that it’s best to sit on the fence on this topic, your mind being open to ideas of supernatural phenomena, as you still consider rational scientific explanations.

  • @TheFonz
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    OP if you’re feeling lost and without purpose there’s more fulfilling things than getting trapped in the search for God. There’s natural humanism. Read Carl Sagan. Read some Marcus Aurelius. There’s a whole universe of interesting philosophy and science worth learning about rather than trying to find meaning in thy mystical and empty ‘supernatural’ hoping to stumble upon a sign that says made by god. The universe is majestic and endless and we are specks of atoms here for a short short time. Make the most of it while you can.

    • @aLaStOr_MoOdY47OP
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      I’m not in search of a god to worship, or religion to be in. I’m free from those shackles. Now, I just like to dabble in the occult, and esotericism. I also like to deeply question reality. Yes, I love science too. I like to be on the fence between science, and the supernatural.

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        Anyone who is fence sitting or undecided about naturalism or empiricism and is dabbling with ‘the supernatural’ is just longing for a meaning or purpose. You don’t get to claim to be free of the shackles of religion but still asks questions about the supernatural - can they really claim to be free? When I left my religion it took me a really long time to deprogram. It doesn’t happen over night but it takes years. You can’t be half pregnant: you either are or you aren’t. You don’t want to call it God because it’s embarrassing, but what’s the difference really? At that point it’s just a semantic distinction.

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    Supernatural phenomena do not actually exist as far as I can tell. There’s no actual evidence to my knowledge, and plenty of evidence that humans are not particularly good at perceiving or interpreting the universe around us as it actually is. Our brains are not a reliable narrator, supernatural phenomena are most likely a consequence of this rather than anything genuinely supernatural.

    • @aLaStOr_MoOdY47OP
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      This argument is a very common one. It’s only valid at a scientific standpoint, since you can’t really scientifically prove something that transcends the laws of nature. However, at a historical standpoint, the existence of supernatural phenomena can be considered. There is also no evidence that supernatural phenomena does not exist.

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            Not really, because every non-falsifiable theory is true at the same time. I mean, I can’t forbid anyone from considering.

            • @aLaStOr_MoOdY47OP
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              And that’s what I’m advocating. For people to sit on the fence, instead of leaning hard-science, or hard-supernatural.

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        I’m not sure what you mean about a historical standpoint. I don’t think there’s anything in the historical record that could be considered actual evidence of supernatural phenomena. History as an academic discipline is a kind of science and generally approaches the subject matter with the scientific method.

  • @cmbabul
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    Just based on the premise of this question I think you should look into the work of Robert Anton Wilson if you haven’t already.

  • 🇰 🌀 🇱 🇦 🇳 🇦 🇰 ℹ️
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    I think there may be some scientific explanation for a variety of things that are attributed to the supernatural; and not necessarily just mundane things like knocks and creaks in your house, paradolia causing images of faces in image noise and shit like that. For example, with how places that have unusual geomagnetic activity tend to also have higher than average ghost sightings, I think some people may just be extra sensitive to magnetic fields which causes them to hallucinate.

    So many myths and monsters are basically caused by misunderstandings, not seeing something clearly enough to identify it, or even exaggerating a story that’s been passed down verbally over a long time. Not to mention things caused by mental illness in times before advanced medicine and psychology. Many alien abduction stories and succubus sightings are almost certainly the result of hallucinations induced by sleep paralysis.

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      I have a “theory” that in these places where there are higher than normal “ghost sightings” and “encounters” that the spaces between our universe (think of the string theory of the universes) and another are even closer than “normal”, and that these “sightings” and “encounters” are a part of that crossover, and we just don’t currently have a way to measure it or interact in a meaningful way.

      I also don’t really understand string theory all that well, I mostly just have a half-baked idea of what it is and how it works, so be gentle, please!

      • magnetosphere
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        I think the vast majority of people who are even aware of the term “string theory” only have a half-baked idea of what it is. You’re in good company!

        I know that some physicists think that the force of gravity is inexplicably weak, and that gravity isn’t as powerful as it “should” be. There’s a theory out there (or maybe it’s part of a larger theory, I don’t remember) that what we perceive as gravity is just “leaking” from another dimension. That dovetails nicely with your own perspective.

    • @aLaStOr_MoOdY47OP
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      Lets have a fun conversation.

      What is a hallucination?

      • A phantom sense of something that isn’t actually there. Be it feeling a touch, seeing something, hearing something, smelling something, etc. As real as it may seem to the brain experiencing it, it’s entirely a product of that brain and can be caused by all sorts of things from illness and physical trauma to chemicals, lack of sleep, or even simply being deprived of stimulation.

      • @[email protected]
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        I’m nit the person you asked, but is no “fun” if you intend to be educated by each of your interlocutors without even attempting to investigate anything yourself. It’s lazy and disrespectful, and reeks of sealioning.

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    I don’t believe in “supernatural phenomena” either. If they’d exist, we’d actually have prove of their existence. There’s about 8 billion people on this planet and for some reason all the “recorded” phenomena date back to before everyone had an easy to record device in their pockets. They’ve all gone down to 0 for some odd reason, even though it is as easy as ever to actually provide literal proof - if they existed in the first place.

    People who experience supernatural phenomena are experiencing either natural phenomena they are too stupid to understand, are fooled by man made things, or are hallucinating for whatever reason.

    • @aLaStOr_MoOdY47OP
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      The reason why you don’t see in supernatural phenomena is because those who experience it don’t report it, because of the stigmatization surrounding the subject. If you say you saw something supernatural and reported it, people will ridicule you, or call you crazy. If video evidence is provided, it’s fake or edited. There are however videos featuring things that cannot be explained rationally, opening the door to potential supernatural explanations.

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        There are like 9 ghost hunting TV shows on Hulu, probably. Belief in the supernatural isn’t some underground fringe theory that will get you shunned or locked up. There are oodles of people out there that earnestly believe in spirits and psychics and auras and reincarnation and witchcraft and whatever the fuck else people can come up with to either

        a.) make sense of a world they don’t understand or b.) help them feel like they have more control in a world that makes them feel powerless

        And each of them would be absolutely thrilled if there was some incontrovertible proof of their particular flavor of magic, but there isn’t, and those people are suckers. If you’re willing to believe that there’s any amount of paranormal shit going on in the world, despite having no proof of it, you might want to reevaluate your position as an atheist. I know I would.

      • @surewhynotlem
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        “let’s talk about a topic. But I’m gonna tell you you’re wrong with no evidence”

        Weird way to spend your time, but hey, at least you got a hobby. I’m just an idiot replying to a reply of a weird hobby.

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          I don’t see where I told him that he’s wrong. I just told him why you won’t really hear about supernatural stuff. We’re having a conversation. I don’t know what you want me to do.

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        There are however videos featuring things that cannot be explained rationally

        You can – quite literally – create any effect on video. You should go watch that guy that debunks YouTube videos for a living. He shows you exactly how the effects were created, etc.

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    I’m a strict naturalist - I believe that supernatural phenomena do not exist. I do not believe in the unknown.

    • @aLaStOr_MoOdY47OP
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      Why? Supernatural phenomena isn’t really generally unknown.

      • @custard_swollower
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        What do you mean? That people experience supernatural phenomena?

        • @aLaStOr_MoOdY47OP
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          If they didn’t, they would it be a thing?

          • @custard_swollower
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            Ok. I don’t believe they do experience supernatural. I think people are gullible, only selectively critical, and are often influenced by their culture to believe in supernatural explanations. And some people are just frauds. I believe honest people get tricked by their culture to regard unknown as supernatural, and by accepting that explanation, never find the natural behind the unknown.

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    It’s entirely possible that supernatural phenomena exist. It’s also possible that what we call “supernatural” is merely science we don’t understand yet. After all, things like lightning and disease used to be attributed to gods, evil spirits, witchcraft, etc. I guess I’d call myself an open-minded skeptic, if that makes any sense.

    • @surewhynotlem
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      The point of “super” natural is that it CAN’T be explained using the rules of our universe. Unexplained things that COULD be explained aren’t super. They’re just natural.

      • @[email protected]
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        99% of people don’t know how electricity works. About the same for the internet. About ten people on the planet could make a computer processor

        Yeah, it makes sense!

  • lurch (he/him)
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    There is no supernatural. Everything is natural. I’m agnostic, so I won’t rule out something exists some people would call a god, but even if it exists, I would count it as natural.

    • @aLaStOr_MoOdY47OP
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      I disagree. Supernatural is anything that transcends the laws of nature. Something that transcends the laws of nature is not natural.

      • @IzzyScissor
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        To paraphrase Tim Minchin, the supernatural has either not been proved to exist or has been proved to not exist.

        If you can test it - it’s natural. If you can’t test it - you can’t prove it even exists.

        • @aLaStOr_MoOdY47OP
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          Inability to test something does not prove it doesn’t exist.

          • @IzzyScissor
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            It doesn’t prove it, no, but it doesn’t need to. The burden of proof is on the one making a claim, so any claim should come with a way to test it. Otherwise, you can ALWAYS say, “Well, the flying spaghetti monster did it. You can’t prove me wrong.”

      • @[email protected]
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        What are the laws of nature? You keep saying that as if it proves something but haven’t defined it. Where do the laws come from?

        • @aLaStOr_MoOdY47OP
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          The laws of physics, biology… blah blah blah. I really wish we’d stop arguing about the definition, because it won’t really go anywhere. You know what I mean when I say supernatural.

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            Proofs start from axioms, which the ‘laws of nature’ as defined by you, are not. I don’t know what you mean, which is why I asked. You’re only revealing your own lack of critical thought here, this isn’t a gotcha like you think it is.

  • @[email protected]
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    There hasn’t been any proof in all of history that any supernatural phenomenon was real.
    Until there is, my thoughts on it are: not real, never happened.

    • @aLaStOr_MoOdY47OP
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      There also hasn’t been any proof that supernatural phenomena doesn’t exist. It’s why I choose to keep an open mind about it. It’s a subject that suffers a lot of stigma in the science-centric world we live in, and thus few people talk about it.

      • @IzzyScissor
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        It rightly suffers stigma because it does not follow the scientific method, but claims to have scientific merit.

        • @aLaStOr_MoOdY47OP
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          Supernatural phenomena does not claim to have scientific merit. You are also assuming that science will eventually explain everything about everything. That it is the only existing truth. This is called scientism, and it oversteps science’s proper boundaries.

          • @IzzyScissor
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            Um… no? Not what I said and not what I believe.

            To quote professor Farnsworth: “The pursuit of knowledge is hopeless and eternal. HOORAY!

            We’re always going to have things we don’t know. The point is to build on the knowledge we do have and to slowly get better. What the belief in the supernatural does is actually the shortcut to “being able to explain everything about everything”, because you’re presupposing the answer without any proof or testing done. Sure, those things might be possible, but so might be waking up in the Pokemon universe tomorrow.

            Until there’s proof, I have no reason to act like there is. It’s a fun game to think about, but it shouldn’t hold any weight in how you see the universe we actually live in.

            Also, the natural universe is weird enough already. Have you heard of the fine structure constant? Basically, we found this one constant number within all of these different fundamental formulas for how the universe behaves, but it doesn’t have a unit associated. So, we know that it exists and can calculate it, but no one knows WHY it exists. We think it’s a constant, but it might have changed over time, so we’re trying to find ways to test that. We might never know, but those questions are far more interesting to me than “maybe aliens”.

      • @[email protected]
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        There also hasn’t been any proof that supernatural phenomena doesn’t exist.

        You can play that game all day with anything. It’s not a valid argument.

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        There also hasn’t been any proof that supernatural phenomena doesn’t exist

        You can’t prove a negative. Which is why in the scientific method, the onus is on the person making the claim to provide the proof, not the other way around. That’s why we rarely engage in debates with people who don’t grasp that concept, because for the most part they’re argument comes down to “You can’t prove it doesn’t exist, so therefore I’m right.”