• Flying Squid
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    6 days ago

    As a mod in other coomunities, please report these as quickly as you can. They can generally be taken care of quickly.

  • @MutilationWave
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    57 days ago

    Shame. I’ve PM’d a few people and had good conversations.

    • @CrayonRosaryOP
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      47 days ago

      Sure, but did you at least add context about why you’re messaging them? Like some comment or post they made that you liked and you wanted to talk about similar stuff?

      Because that would be kind of normal. That’s what private messages are for. But this one is just bait.

      • @MutilationWave
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        27 days ago

        Yeah just a question or a word of encouragement or a recommendation so it didn’t seem like I was advertising. I like most things to be publicly posted but not everything. If Lemmy gets a bunch of bot spam PMs, legit ones will be less likely to get a response.

        • @CrayonRosaryOP
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          37 days ago

          I imagine speed limits will be put on DMs at some point in the future. There’s no reason to have it wide open so you can firehose multiple people with the same message.

          Like, if you’re sending a message to someone and they reply back, you can immediately reply back, back-and-forth, as fast as you want. Other than that, you should only be able to send a message once every five or ten minutes.

      • HubertManne
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        17 days ago

        Its almost insulting. Its like. Hey. If im gonna be catfished it should be by someone who seems way out of my league. thank you very much.

  • @chonglibloodsport
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    57 days ago

    Thanks for the heads up! I never PM anyone on social media platforms unless I’ve met them in real life and they expressed actual openness to talking to me.

  • lime!
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    47 days ago

    I thought maybe it vas a weird quirk of friendica, but yeah this seems more focused

  • @TrickDacy
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    47 days ago

    I got it too. Looks like maybe they were banned because it disappeared from my inbox

  • @[email protected]
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    37 days ago

    Yeah this was the first thing that i saw in the morning and it was so surreal. I literally woke up, grabbed my smartphone, went to lemmy inbox, and saw this message three times in a row. Clicked through all of them, then fell back to sleep, only to wake up an hour ago and now i see this meme. I guess i wasn’t dreaming this up after all.