Following the spirit of spreading across the Fediverse (and because my main instance is down so many times, because diverse reasons) I’m intrigued about the joining instance process, because I honestly don’t know what criteria to have in order to join another one if I ever want to do it.

That made me curious of how you decided to join?

I firstly join to lemmy.fmhy.ml thanks to Spez and a Reddit post from FMHY subreddit, then the tragedy occurred, then I joined to lemmy.world which is/was my main one because I pictured it like a good home, then lemmy.fmhy.net revived and I am with them too, but seems like they are in a bit of trouble with the server, finally now I am in lemm.ee, but only because I just wanted another backup, not because I searched for it especially (also it was mentioned in a comment about smaller instances and one user from here throw a joke to not join here because it sucks so that way the server would be more stable, so yeah, I joined).

To be clear I am not in search for yet another instance (that sounds like a good instance name to be fair), I just want to know how the deciding process is for you, is it just random? Is it because of personal tastes?

I couldn’t care less about NSFW stuff, I don’t search for it specifically, but my day won’t be ruined if I see a tit.

I like gaming, tech, Linux, SBC gaming, emulation, macOS, Android stuff etc (yeah how original) should I look for an instance dedicated to that if I ever want to join yet another one? Because I see topics like this in almost any instance.

I read you lemmings!

EDIT: BTW the migration process has been easier for me thanks to LASIM, so I wouldn’t be scared if I ever want/have to migrate again.

    • @scarabic
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      161 year ago

      Why’d you start an instance?

      • Ada
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        We started a regular fediverse instance because we wanted a space for queer and gender diverse folk to be safe, on something that wasn’t Mastodon or Mastodon derived.

        Once we had that running, we spun up a lemmy instance just to check it out, and it sat there basically only used by me, until Reddit Day came along, and our userbase went from 3 to 3000 in the space of a week. So now, our lemmy instance serves the same purpose as our main instance, which is to provide a safe space for our community, but focused on lemmy/the threadiverse

        • @scarabic
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          131 year ago

          It’s good to hear that even small instances benefitted from Reddit Day and not just lemmy.world

          • Ada
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            Every instance that pre-dated Reddit Day saw crazy growth during the migration.

            We were around long before lemmy.world, and despite the small userbase, we had a couple of popular (at the time) communities used by the rest of the lemmyverse.

        • @[email protected]
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          And a thank you for the safe space! It’s what drew me to your instance when I found it!

          Especially since most of what I was browsing on Reddit was trans or queer subs.

      • AnonymousLlama
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        It’s a good option for when you want to follow every instance and not be beholden to the server admin randomly de-federating an instance they don’t agree with personally (which was one one of the issues Reddit faced, mods with their own agenda)

        If you run your own instance you can choose exactly what you get to interact with

    • @Ciaocibai
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      41 year ago

      I’m on both, but using memmy on iOS I really don’t even notice which instance I’m on anymore. It takes me back to using Apollo

  • Melllvar
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    221 year ago

    I followed the Daystrom Institute community from reddit to startrek.website.

    • @[email protected]
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      91 year ago

      I have a few different accounts. One on lemmy.world, but that’s been down so much, I decided I needed a backup, and quite frankly, the fact that there’s an entire Trek instance made my choice of a backup a no-brainer.

    • @[email protected]
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      51 year ago

      Even though I was on Reddit for 9 years, I never frequented r/startrek until this year and saw the mod posts about starting a fresh Lemmy instance. Being a member of the Federation in the Fediverse just really appealed to my geek brain.

    • kratoz29OP
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      41 year ago

      Yeah I have stated before I chuckle when your instance is down, merely because of the name lol.

      I would have choose this one but went to lemmy.world.

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    Started on kbin.social and beehaw.org. Realized I liked Lemmy just a little more early on and stuck with Beehaw. But then they started to defederate from larger instances with open signups. So I joined lemmy.world to be part of the bigger picture. Then it got too big and people want to play the DDoS game, so now I’ve got this alt on lemm.ee as well. We’ll see where it goes from here. 😂

    • @[email protected]
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      This was my exact trajectory and reasoning, but I ended up adding lemmings.world after that. 😅

    • kratoz29OP
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      31 year ago

      This is a journey we should tell to our grandkids.

  • katy ✨
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    151 year ago

    The shark, mostly.

    Also because I’m on their Calckey instance too.

    And this: blobcat, box

  • m-p{3}
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    The server is hosted in my country, the TLD belongs to my country and the current admins seem chill and dedicated to make it work. Hopefully that’s the recipe to it’s longevity.

    Once they add some donation method I’ll gladly donate and if they need help I’ll gladly offer my technical knowledge.

    • BlueÆther
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      Me too, the a few other people joined, and now I feel obliged to keep it running

      • @[email protected]
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        How did you get email working? I was trying to use M365 as an SMTP relay but couldn’t get it working.

        This is the only thing preventing me from letting others join.

  • Dr Cog
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    121 year ago

    I’m a scientist so I joined the instance that seemed to match my interests the best. I like browsing Local and seeing all the other science posts as well

      • @[email protected]
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        41 year ago

        It’s not anywhere near the point I need to moderate it. That may change.

        I’ve been looking at other instances and put in some defederation that obviously needed to happen.

        But because it’s just me and a few friends thus far I don’t need to police much beyond making sure spam bots don’t get in