• crusa187@lemmy.ml
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    16 hours ago

    I’m a guy, and personally I enjoy violet’s hornypostings - hope to see more!

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    21 hours ago

    woman existing outside the kitchen is already political, the bar is that low

    • Sundray@lemmus.orgOP
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      22 hours ago

      There’s a frequent poster over in the lemmyshitpost comm who’s been catching backlash for hornyposting, and she posted this image which I thought was darkly funny. I thought other horny femmes (and embies and whomever) might appreciate the sentiment. Maybe it’s just me, but I like the idea that my being a thirsty pan isn’t pathetic, just political.

      • TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM
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        17 hours ago

        I’m honestly sad about this. Like, men can make horny jokes in any space that allows horny jokes, but heaven forbid femmes do the same. There is some bullshit going on outside of my usual comms and it’s frustrating.

        • applebusch@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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          14 hours ago

          Femmes making horny jokes is my favorite thing honestly. Sex was always a special interest of mine so it made me sad to feel I couldn’t share that with women without coming off as a creep (pre-transition at least). Fellow femmes horny posting makes me feel welcome and all warm and fuzzy inside, like I’m finally with my people.

        • Sundray@lemmus.orgOP
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          15 hours ago

          The user posts PG-13 memes that imply that she’s horny, and some comments push back; some go as far as saying she shouldn’t be posting them.

      • dandelion (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        22 hours ago

        I think part of what’s confusing is the grammar - am I supposed to read it as

        “women who are perverts” <- this is deeply political

        or is it a typo and it should be “women who are perverts are deeply political”?

        either way, yeah - women and sexuality are both deeply political, duh

  • Staden_ スタデン@pawb.social
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    22 hours ago

    I see people using the word “political” to refer to things that provoke discussions and/or disagreements (not sure if that’s the case here). Wouldn’t “controversial” be a better word for that use?

    As far as I understand, political means being involved in public affairs of some kind, like working in politics, doing activism, etc.

    I’m not a native English speaker, so correct me if I’m wrong.

    • Sundray@lemmus.orgOP
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      Yes, here in the USA “political” can refer to all the things you mentioned, as well as being a synonym for “controversial”. But its meaning has been stretched and twisted here.

      For example, there’s a whole line of discourse about what constitutes “a political act”, i.e. something that contributes to advocacy: you may have heard someone say “love is a political act” or “trans joy is a political act”. And sometimes “political act” is just shortened to “political”.

      And disingenuous right-wing grifters have adopted the word to refer to any agenda the disagree with, and they intend it as derogatory. It’s a loaded word, now.