• @j4k3
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    241 year ago

    Today fucker. Why you got to remind me I just turned 40. Fuck!

    • netburnr
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      11 year ago

      Time to buy a sports car. I love my new midlife crisis car

      • @CuddlyCassowary
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        71 year ago

        I see a lot of posts in this thread that, on the surface, seem to be more health and lifestyle issues than solely age. I still play ice hockey, climb mountains, stay out late, enjoy alcohol, play in a band, play computer games, bartend, throw parties, travel, and generally live life to the fullest. I’ve been fortunate to not have any debilitating genetic problems, but I’ve also kept myself physically active and emotionally healthy throughout my life. I truly wish society supported more people to be able to live that way. As I’ve aged I’ve become more of an activist for a shorter work week, better support from the government, and much higher wages. I hope, those of you who want to, can find ways to reverse some of the things that make you feel old beyond your years.

        • @[email protected]
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          31 year ago

          Seconded, fully. In addition, doing new things really helps: all the time I’ve been spending challenging myself and learning new skills has basically been keeping me mentally young and flexible.

          • @CuddlyCassowary
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            21 year ago

            Yes, that’s an EXCELLENT point! During COVID I learned French and now I’m studying to get my sommelier certification. Never stop learning! It also tends to be very humbling. There SO much I don’t know and am terrible at, but being a beginner has its own type of joy.

    • @[email protected]
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      21 year ago

      That’s the spirit. Although sometimes I see changes in my skin that don’t match the age I feel :-D

      • @CuddlyCassowary
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        11 year ago

        I’ve gone the “drinking the blood of virgins” route for that one.

    • @PostingInPublic
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      11 year ago

      When I turned 50 they asked me if I planned to grow up now 😂

      • @CuddlyCassowary
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        11 year ago

        Whoever “they” are should stop asking stupid questions.

  • @Weirdfish
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    131 year ago

    When the moms at the skatepark seemed too young to flirt with.

    • @Buddahriffic
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      31 year ago

      IMO fuck everyone who doesn’t care about good quality appliances. They are to blame for how common shitty ones are these days. Especially developers who just get something that looks nice but actually sucks when you use it.

      Glares at oven that takes forever to preheat, doesn’t keep the temperature even once it does, and has a drawer oven that takes even longer to preheat than the shitty main oven takes to preheat and COOK things

      • @[email protected]
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        31 year ago

        I sell appliances and the number of times I hear “It’s for a rental”, as a reason to get the cheapest thing, is depressing.

        • Chuckles
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          31 year ago

          As someone that is on the marketing side of individuals renting condos for vacations, the ones that buy the quality stuff, are able to get more revenue per booking, and a better retention. It not only applies to the kitchen, but to things you wouldn’t expect, like sheets, towels, and toilet paper. Go cheap on any of those, and you’ll read about it in a 2 star review.

      • @[email protected]
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        11 year ago

        I’ve been quite poor my whole life. For me simply having the appliance, in my own apartment, is amazing. One year I lived in a little place with a little washer and dryer in the closet. It was incredible. The washer didn’t drain right, and the dryer would go for hours without drying the clothes, but it was still amazing because it was the first time ever I’d had a washer and dryer of my own that I didn’t have to go outside to use.

    • Chuckles
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      11 year ago

      I was at a cocktail party a couple of weeks ago, and had an engaging conversation with 4 other dads about our choices and regrets in kitchen appliances…and lawnmowers.

  • @Tujio
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    111 year ago

    I was at Warped Tour many years ago, talking with randos in the campground. I mentioned which bands I was there to see, and this guy gave me a huge smile and yelled ‘You’re old’ in my face.

    • Lem Jukes
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      21 year ago

      I went in 2018 and only went for/recognized reel big fish… Wuf

  • Presi300
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    111 year ago

    When a little boy in the supermarket called me “sir”… I’m 18

  • @HonoraryMancunian
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    111 year ago

    Shortly after turning 34, it occurred to me I was closer to my 50th birthday than 18th.

      • @Buddahriffic
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        11 year ago

        Can confirm at this point that they were making it up as they went… Just like I am now.

    • arefx
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      41 year ago

      Yeah somewhere between 32 and 34. So long youth, I guess I had my go.

    • @Drewdp
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      21 year ago

      My joints were already telling me I’m old. Did you really have to point that out to all the other 34 year Olds on here?

  • Electric_Druid
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    101 year ago

    Well, throwing out my lower back bending over a table a couple weeks ago sure didn’t help…

    • @Adulated_Aspersion
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      21 year ago

      The worst I have ever thrown my back out was picking up a pair of scissors. I was in my 20s.

      • shastaxc
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        21 year ago

        Yep. It hit me at 32. I literally wasn’t even bending over. I walked about 30 feet in my house and by the time I got to the couch I was in terrible pain

    • @[email protected]
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      31 year ago

      That may as well just mean you’re overworked (or something else) though. I do stuff like this in my 20s

      • @Buddahriffic
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        31 year ago

        Could be a nutrient deficiency, too. I’ve gotten myself out of that exhausted state with b-complex and magnesium supplements. It’s quick, too, if that’s the real problem. I felt normal and alert again within 15 minutes of taking the supplements.

    • @[email protected]
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      11 year ago

      I hesitate to nap on a day off because if I’m not careful I’ll just wake up the next morning and my day off will be gone.

  • maegul (he/they)
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    81 year ago

    When I honestly felt that what my homemade juice/blended smoothie thingy needed more of was celery and that without enough celery it was too sweet and lacked body. That was the day there was no more pretending. Only a year before had I suffered through my first back injury, so they can go together.

    Otherwise, the beginnings of it for me were when I noticed warming up for physical exercise took longer. 10-15 minute bicycle commutes used to require no warm up at all. Then I’d feel warmed up only by the end of them. That’s when I knew I was turning the corner.

  • Gumby
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    81 year ago

    Within the past few years, once my neck problems started getting worse and I finally went for an MRI and was diagnosed with arthritis.

    0/10, do not recommend.

    • Chuckles
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      11 year ago

      My MIL has had really good luck with non-thc CBD creams for arthritis. Done it daily for the the last couple of years and she swears by it. Don’t have personal experience with it, but she recently opened a jar of pasta sauce in front of me and didn’t blink. Hope you get some relief.

  • @spiffy_spaceman
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    71 year ago

    When I realized I could say “I’ve been doing this for 20 years”.

  • @[email protected]
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    71 year ago

    I was speaking to someone at a party recently and realised they where both in their 20s and born after 9/11. Was quite a moment.

    • @IphtashuFitz
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      21 year ago

      Hell, I clearly recall the space shuttle Challenger tragedy. I even vaguely recall when Reagan was shot.