I’ve been feeling down lately and I started re-watching futurama for some good nostalgia, but it keeps making transphobic jokes which is kind of just making me feel worse. Anyone have any suggestions for comfort shows to watch?

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    Bluey!

    It’s cute, it’s short, and it’s great for de-stressing! I put it on almost any time I’m feeling anxious or depressed

    It’s written so wonderfully, and can be fully enjoyed by adults just as well as kids

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      Came here to say Bluey!! My partner and I (both grown ass adults) watch it together and cry tears of joy as we let it re-parent us!! Such a wonderful show!

    • @Chip_Rat
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      To tack on “kids shows that are just fine thank you very much” I really enjoy “Tinga Tinga Tales” The animation is crazy, music beautiful, the stories interesting (folk tales) and the characters fun. Great way to wind down for 20 minutes, finding out Why Frog Croaks.

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    Ted Lasso

    Adventure time

    Steven Universe

    Out Flag Means Death

    The Good Place

    What We Do In The Shadows

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      Steven, especially the first few seasons is super feel good low impact chill show.

      Gravity falls is also pretty great for this.

  • @daddybutter
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    Schitt’s Creek and Ted Lasso are great feel good shows with inclusive themes.

  • @gaael
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    Our flag means death - comedy about an english lord becoming a pirate, their crew and adventures. It’s funny, cute and often heartfelt.

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    • @[email protected]
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      I’ll be the one to spoil IT Crowd, it has at least one poor portrayal of a trans woman. Avoid anything associated with Graham Linehan.

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        Agreed about IT Crowd. I watched it for the first time like 2 years ago and there was a whole episode that was awful.

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      Drawn Together

      No, oh definitely not. It’s funny but it has anti-everything jokes, including anti trans. They’re an equal opportunity offender against all groups.

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      It Crowd (comedy)

      except for that joke in s3e4 that led to graham going all terf central

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      DS9

      Unless you count the gender bending jokes surrounding Trill issues that have been made once or twice. Or the time Kira ruined a deal Quark was trying to make by editing his hologram program of her to have his head on a female body to disgust his buyer.

      Actually curious what people think about those, along with Drew’s brother on the Drew Carry show.

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        I also think there was gender swap in 3rd rock played for laughs, but I might be misremembering gender differences for an alien. I also don’t recall the episodes so not sure if it was just poking fun at gender as a whole.

        Similarly, I think scrubs has some references that may be unpleasant but on the whole they tend to be good or thoughtful when dealing with subjects that at the time weren’t always represented well.

        Unfortunately, a lot of older shows have unpleasant jokes. We just have to realize that jokes were a way to discuss the taboo and if we didn’t have those jokes back then, we might not have the progress to today. That’s not to say we want them now but we should judge the media on the knowledge and morals of the time.

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        There’s also an episode where Quark undergoes gender reassignment in order to close a deal, which is played for laughs and includes lines about women being sensitive because of their hormones. It sticks out because it’s just horrible, while she show is generally good.

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    • Seven
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      Mash and Allo Allo both have no shortage of jokes about cross-dressing and plenty of casual sexism. Fawlty Towers … is also a product of it’s time, any good parts get outweighed by the bad parts.

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        • Seven
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          Klinger wants to get classified as crazy by wearing dresses, which implies that wearing different clothes is a sign of mental illness. Herr Flick gets sexual gratification from wearing women’s clothes, thus implying that wearing different clothes is something only a sexual deviant would do. Both of these stereotypes continue to be used to harm Trans women.

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            Klinger wants to get classified as crazy by wearing dresses, which implies that wearing different clothes is a sign of mental illness

            Until very recently you’d be kicked out of the army for being gay or trans. Klinger was simply taking advantage of a broken system, we have no idea what his personal beliefs on crossdressing were.

            • Seven
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              That’s the motivations of the character, he was in a dress in a comedy so that people could laugh at him.

              • @[email protected]M
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                To be clear, having seen M.A.S.H, this is correct. And you’re right about the way that the narratives it plays into continue to be used to harm trans women.

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                Luckily they realized after Vietnam that draftees who don’t want to be there don’t really give it their all. You bring up an interesting point though, all men in the country have to register for selective service at 18, I wonder if that still applies to trans women who haven’t updated their paperwork yet

                Anyway, hypotheticals aside, I think it’s good that gay or trans people who want to serve in the armed forces have that option now

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                  Absolutely, there shouldn’t be anything to stop those individuals from serving on their own volition.

                  luckily they realized after Vietnam that… (conscripts) … who don’t want to be there don’t really give it their all.

                  It was 2006-2007 I was a really big 9/11 truther, any time people would talk about a draft I used to rebut “I don’t want to go there, and I want to die anyways, go ahead and give me a gun and force me to go, let’s see how many Americans I can kill with sabotage and a rampage.”

                  It blows my mind that we still have people who think a conscription effort would be anything but detrimental.

                  Speaking of, anyone else notice the semantic propaganda that is the word draft/ conscript? Our enemies are evil and they conscript their men to fight in pointless wars, but we on the other hand draft our young heroes to selflessly serve their country.

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            • Seven
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              They were both in their respective shows so that people could laugh at them, not with them.

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    • @[email protected]
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      The Venture Bros does have a couple of borderline transphobic jokes about Dr. Mrs. The Monarch in one episode

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      Fuckin hell can we hang out? What’s your discord or something?

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    My ultimate comfort show is Star Trek: the Next Generation. If it’s just me in the house and nothing good in my video queue that’s what I’ll turn on for noise.

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    My partner and I have been really enjoying Spy X Family. Its a nice little found family/comedy series with very wholesome content.

    The premise is that the titular Spy has an assignment to make contact with a total shut-in who only appears in public for events at his son’s school. So the Spy adopts a child from a shady orphanage and meets a woman who is willing to fake being his wife to get his child into the elite school. Of course, the child he adopted can read minds and the woman he fake married is secretly an assassin. No one but the child knows the truth about everyone and they’re each so focused on hiding their own secrets they don’t catch on to the others. The series isn’t complete yet, but so far the major theme is them coming to genuinely value their little family as more than a convenient facade.

    Its just such a cute show, and I go back and forth between cackling and tearing up at how cute they all are. The only thing I think is particularly off about the show is the assassins brother. He’s a secret police officer and also incestuously obsessed with his sister. Its a weird inclusion, but he is made fun of by the narrative for his behavior and that is enough for me to still enjoy how good the rest of the show is

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    I don’t remember there being transphobic jokes in The Golden Girls, so maybe that?

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      Fun fact, I watched the entirety of Bee and Puppycat without subtitles for puppycat and was very confused the entire time lol

  • katy ✨
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    pushing daisies!! ❤️❤️

    also my so called life

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    30 Rock is my comfort show - it’s on Hulu rn. It’s definitely a little dated, but is still very funny! Also Bob’s Burgers is pro lgbtq+ and has over a dozen seasons, so plenty to keep on all the time! Also on Hulu

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      Bob’s burgers is kinda nuts. The quality of the show has never dipped. I don’t think they have a bad episode. In my mind it’s still “the new show” but the Simpsons was already going down fast at season 10