• @MissJinx
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    I feel like as.a.woman I.have to.point out that, many times, a woman orgasming or not is not.your fuck’s fault.

    I would also.like to point out that it is harder to orgasm in “normal” sex than is it with oral, so.if your girl didn’t orgasm don’t take it personally, pull your pants up and go down on her

    • Jo Miran
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      2378 days ago

      I believe your comment is suffering from irregular periods.

        • @scrion
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          138 days ago

          Or they have the same issue as me, their phone keyboard randomly inserting periods all the time. I manually remove them most of the time, but when I’m agitated, I sometimes can’t be bothered.

          This happens with several apps, e. g. https://www.reddit.com/r/Swiftkey/comments/wylng4/random_periods/

          I didn’t particularly want to link to reddit, but I wasn’t able to quickly find e. g. an issue tracker.

          • @Viking_Hippie
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            198 days ago

            I use and recommend HeliBoard. It’s foss, it’s customizable, it’s privacy conscious and, other than weird ideas about capitalization sometimes, it’s working flawlessly in two languages simultaneously for me ❤️

              • udon
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                18 days ago

                Does it do swipe and how well? Github says a blob library is needed for that. Can’t be bothered with typing individual letters anymore on mobile

                • SeekPie
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                  Glide typing (only with closed source library ☹️)

                  • library not included in the app, as there is no compatible open source library available
                  • can be extracted from GApps packages (“swypelibs”), or downloaded here (click on the file and then “raw” or the tiny download button)

                  Haven’t tried it yet. GitHub does say it is possible by downloading the library.

          • @Coreidan
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            18 days ago

            It would also help if these dumb fucking developers wouldn’t put the period right next to the god damn space bar. That might solve a problem or two but noooooooooope it’s gotta be right next to the space bar.

      • @MissJinx
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        138 days ago

        The phone adds it auto and I never had the patience to go change it lol. My family is also very annoyed by it

    • Ricky Rigatoni
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      638 days ago

      I understand you are a woman but you really need to get control of your periods here.

    • @[email protected]
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      478 days ago

      There’s also women who can not orgasm by in-and-out movements (like: the act of fucking) and it just hurts them after a while. Had to find that out the hard way.

      • @RedditWanderer
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        I think people would be really surprised at the wide variety of shapes for women insides. Some shapes just don’t get rubbed the same way.

      • Captain Aggravated
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        Positions and angles of attack can matter. Something that feels good for one girl does nothing for or hurts another. And it’s not necessarily a matter of “I like this position” because it’s about how your two bodies interact. It’s very possible you both like different things. I had a girlfriend fairly early on where we pretty quickly realized I liked this and she liked that, and we’d take turns doing the other’s favorite. Dynamics of sexual relationships became a lot less adult after high school.

    • @[email protected]
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      I’m surprised this is news to people but I guess sex education varies between countries maybe.

    • @[email protected]
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      Or, first ask for directions, go down and stay down, keep listening and doing exactly what she says, until she gets there first. THEN bring your dick to the party. For many of us the second and successive orgasms are much quicker and easier to achieve, even from penetrative sex.

      • @Resonosity
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        28 days ago

        This is the way. First, second, third base and home.

        Although doesn’t have to be every time. Can skip bases, go backwards, etc.

    • @angrystego
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      Agree. Let me add that some women don’t orgasm at all or do orgasm and don’t like it - yes, the world is a diverse place.

      Communication is key in any relationship.