• themeatbridge
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      166 hours ago

      People go where their friends are. Their grandparents are on Facebook.

      • Vanth
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        2315 hours ago

        Has FB been cool since they got rid of signups limited by .edu email addresses?

        • @[email protected]
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          2715 hours ago

          That was basically the end. When it was only friends and the feed sorted by “new,”, it was super fun. When my aunts started joining it became much less fun.

          • @SlopppyEngineer
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            811 hours ago

            the feed sorted by “new,”

            Yeah, and it went from “let’s just add some stuff” to outright “we will force feed you this slop and you will like it” from there. It felt like you were a goose being prepped for Christmas’ foie gras.

        • @[email protected]
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          1215 hours ago

          That’s when it was cool to teens who didn’t have .edu emails addresses (but not long after).

      • @kautau
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        711 hours ago

        “In the beginning:”

        Facebook was a MySpace alternative for “academics” (college students / alums) instead of teens.

        LinkedIn was a MySpace alternative for “professionals” instead of teens.

        Forums were an evolution of BBSs that predated “social” media because it wasn’t you, it was an avatar, a fake persona you created rather than “first name,” “last name.”

        ICQ and Skype were purely chat platforms, competing in a completely different space.

        I have no idea what point this rant is trying to make but all the comparisons between services are way off base.

        • @rottingleaf
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          but all the comparisons between services are way off base.

          My experience in Russia. No, they are not off base. Just naturally there are different PoVs and for you it may be something entirely else. You can think about that before saying something is wrong.

          MySpace

          Say, I’m not sure many people even knew of that where I am.

          Forums were an evolution of BBSs that predated “social” media because it wasn’t you, it was an avatar, a fake persona you created rather than “first name,” “last name.”

          People using real names in the Web were the weird ones, but it was normal to meet IRL those you know via forums.

          I have no idea what point this rant is trying to make

          Your failure, not mine.

  • @[email protected]
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    3413 hours ago

    It’s pretty clear. Facebook is now full of crap created by artificial intelligence (and not only).

  • Maeve
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    Because Whatsapp is totally not owned by FB.

    • @lemmylommy
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      5215 hours ago

      It’s not about why owns it. It’s about where young people can be without getting bothered by their parents and other old people.

      • @Lost_My_Mind
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        1815 hours ago

        I’m 41…you telling me the kids today don’t think of me as the greatest person who ever existed??? Pssshhh that’s malarkey! I won’t hear of it! EVERYONE thinks I’m the greatest person who ever existed! My lexicon includes words like “malarkey” and “lexicon”! Kids think that’s cool right???

        • @[email protected]
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          1911 hours ago

          I’m 39 so I am slightly more rizz than you. I maintain my levels of brat by regularly updating my skibidi vocab.

      • @rottingleaf
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        213 hours ago

        That’s about phone number requirement for signup. Not about platforms.

        OK. Life is life.

        I’ve just had a traumatic memory of one young person, a girl (with possibly undiagnosed ASPD), from 13 years ago.

        Feel nausea and want to throw up every time thinking about that kind of places, dynamics, emotions.

  • Dem Bosain
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    7216 hours ago

    Where there any teens on Twitter? Last I was there it was full of angry middle-age men.

    • psychOdelic
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      1413 hours ago

      before musk came it was pretty full, most of them have moved to threads

    • @[email protected]
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      311 hours ago

      Ah, the curse of algorithmic social network. It’s full of angry middle-aged men if you follow those / interact with them. There are / were big communities formed around various pop stars on Twitter and those are quite different demographics.

  • Vanth
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    3915 hours ago

    That is a weird way of describing it. Teens aren’t “abandoning” FB & X; they never signed up to begin with. And why would that? They are platforms built for and filled with millennials+.

  • cheer
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    2315 hours ago

    A decade ago is when teens stopped using Facebook, unless they’re counting Instagram in those metrics?

  • kratoz29
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    1915 hours ago

    Okay? But what does Whatsapp has anything to do with the other? DM?

    I don’t consider WhatsApp social media.

    • @egrets
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      410 hours ago

      WhatsApp has channels (public feeds centered around topics, a bit like microblogging), communities (groups about a subject, much like Facebook Groups), and updates (temporal video/photo statuses to share with your friends). You might only use it for DM, but it has much bigger aspirations.

  • Obinice
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    913 hours ago

    WhatsApp? The instant messenger boomers use on their phones?

    Damn, who saw that coming.

      • @[email protected]
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        38 hours ago

        Weird that this is your association as using it would require an iPhone which most youth don’t have. My thought was Telegram, which is omnipresent at least around me, with Whatsapp often being kept just for the parents or older relatives.

          • @[email protected]
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            36 hours ago

            I know, and it’s terrible that it’s so unavoidable. I managed to avoid Whatsapp, but without Telegram managing university life would be incredibly hard.

    • @[email protected]
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      2312 hours ago

      Most countries stopped using SMS ages ago. WhatsApp, Signal and Telegram are ubiquitous.

      • @[email protected]
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        810 hours ago

        I WISH signal was ubiquitous. Half of my friends are still using Facebook Messenger so I still have to resort to using SMS for them

        • @[email protected]
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          39 hours ago

          SMS for everybody not on a self-hostable encrypted messenger. Why fool oneself into thinking a US managed messenger is private?

  • @[email protected]
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    1916 hours ago

    Ok, I feel old. The only reason facebook has any relevance to me is the market place. What’s the best alternative?

    • @[email protected]
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      1816 hours ago

      That’s just it, Facebook is kinda the default option, and almost everyone has an account there. It’s why so many clubs arrange everything through a Facebook page.

  • @[email protected]
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    613 hours ago

    well Facebook still owns them and will own them when they all switch to instagram reels like America wants them to do

  • Dragon Rider (drag)
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    Isn’t whatsapp for old people? Drag uses Discord instead. It’s not great, but at least it doesn’t hack your phone.