• @[email protected]
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    Scuse me, I burned ~46k on a culinary arts A.S. degree. 🖖

    The world needs moar Neelixes.

    Wish I did engineering/tech hardware tho.

    Maybe self learning how to fix my own motherboard’s/firmware can happen some day.

    Hobby of PC building/self-linux administering for ~20 years…do I know more than some fresh grads? Probably lol…

    • @HappySkullsplitter
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      The grass is always greener I suppose

      I did engineering, wish I had done something like culinary arts

      After all day engineering, I come home and watch chefs on YouTube and botch their recipes in the kitchen while daydreaming about running a chaotic professional kitchen

      • @[email protected]
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        Three of our best senior engineers eventually decided to become farmers. One “retired” to be a personal chef.

        I’m just saying.

  • @[email protected]
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    I majored in History as it was my only interest at the time and I could graduate on time.

    Never major in History.

  • @ickplant
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    Double majored in business/accounting and psychology. Went into financial auditing (not my passion but paid well). Hated my life for 12 years. Decided to go for a graduate degree in social work. Am now a very happy psychotherapist even though I make less money.

    Moral of the story? It’s never too late to switch if you end up hating your original choice.

  • Boomer Humor Doomergod
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    I chose a major I loved and that has good paying jobs but now I sort of hate it

  • @SpaceNoodle
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    Joke’s on you, I got a degree in computer engineering twenty years ago

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        I have a feeling this meme is for younger people who studied the humanities

            • Krik
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              Or gender studies. I still don’t know what that is about.

              You can also try philosophy so you can philosophize about why this choice was bad.
              Who tf hires someone with a degree in philosophy?

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    Me, freshmen year of college: “I’m going to major in computer engineering - with additional math and physics courses. Capable of designing all sorts of cool stuff, and get paid well”

    Me 16 years later: “I don’t know what the fuck I’m doing, I don’t know what the fuck management wants, I don’t know what the fuck I want to do, but at least I get paid well.”

    • @HappySkullsplitter
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      I’ll never forget my first one on one with the director of my engineering department.

      I had been languishing away for a month at this new job trying to get a bearing on what they want from me when thankfully I got an email from the director scheduling a meeting to discuss just that.

      It was a major turnaround, I felt like my life was going to finally get a dose of meaning and direction.

      During the meeting the director said he needed me to write some software but gave no real specifics on its purpose out loud while he was also writing down notes. At the end of 45 minute meeting, he left his notes, shook my hand and said he looked forward to seeing what I come up with.

      I shit you not, this was the “notes” he left for me

      • @ArtVandelay
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        Getting out of a meeting and realizing you have deliverables with no idea how fulfill them is the worst feeling

  • DistressedDad
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    Serious - Don’t follow your passion. I did. Went to school for something I was passionate about. Did well and graduated. I got a job in my field. But soon enough, my passion felt like work. My priorities shifted as I aged and I grew to hate what I studied and once fell passionate about.

    Find a career path that makes you money. Once you have that money you can make time to dabble in your passion projects and hobbies. Just wanted to add a different perspective to the meme :)

    • stinerman
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      This 100%. I’ve worked in some sort of IT all my life. It took what I lived and turned it into a job.

    • @Maalus
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      You can do both and people have done for ages. The thing about work is that you need to do it even when you don’t want to, which makes some people resentful. But that’s the difference between a hobby and work. Passion has nothing to do here. There are passionate people who went into a job because of it and won’t trade it for anything.

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        I agree with what you’re saying. You gotta work even when you don’t feel like it. Being passionate makes it easier to work (in some cases).

    • 野麦さん
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      Never follow the money. Never follow the money. Nothing is worse than having your soul sucked out of you hour by hour because you wanted to “follow the money.”

      I’m sick and tired of this Reddit-ass kind of “advice” meant only for neurotypical white men. Male defaultism is one of many things we should not import here.

      • DistressedDad
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        the thing about having your soul-sucked is that you can bounce back and recover. and let me tell ya, it’s a whole lot easier to recover with money than without. The second part of your response seems to come with a little baggage. Maybe you should follow the money to afford a therapist? LOL

  • Lucy :3
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    • Love CS
    • Major bank took me with the worst grades possible

    Just have the right hobby lmao

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    So many awful takes on this topic in the comments lol. “Don’t follow your passions” is just bs because they’re really just saying “suffer through this major and you’ll get to suffer through a career for the rest of your life.”

    The truth is that your major doesn’t really matter. What hiring managers look for is mostly that you have a degree, and the major comes second.

    I was told for YEARS that “humanities isn’t worth it” and that computer science/engineering/STEM is the only thing worth it. But guess what? Massive layoffs due to AI is killing computer science and STEM grads. Businesses are putting postings out there but aren’t currently hiring to maintain normalcy, etc.

    For a bachelor’s, just do what you want! Look at the financial aid for each school and go from there. A lot of people struggle and burn out studying something they hate and sometimes end up dropping out. It’s better for everyone to educate yourself on something you’re passionate about, then do a master’s if you need a career change.

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      Pitting STEM vs the humanities is yet another (very successful) issue used to divide us from the real class problems we should tackle together instead. I agree with you.

    • @[email protected]
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      They are trying to kill CS with AI.

      Software and Computer engineers are absolutely stupid expensive. And we’re necessary, because so few people understand it, and even less want to put in the required work to do it.

      Unfortunately for them, they don’t understand it to the point where they inevitably push away the people they need to make use of AI tools, and cover the gaps that AI leaves.

      • Prox
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        Yeah, I’ve been playing around with some of the AI coding assistants as accelerators for data science projects. The one thing I’ve learned above all else is that this tech can speed up the process of coding, but it absolutely cannot replace computer scientists and engineers.

        If you don’t actually understand coding, AI will give you stuff that runs, but fucks up key details and/or doesn’t actually do the thing you’re asking correctly. It’s hella dangerous.

  • Porto881
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    “Well what subject did you like best in school?” Is the worst way to choose a major and it’s terrible that college recruiters use it to rope fresh-HS graduates into signing up.

    For anyone considering college in the next few years, you should really consider college as a career prep rather than a place to simply learn more. Unless you’ve got the money and support network to just dilly dally for 4+ years, you should be going in knowing 100% what you want to be doing with your life and make sure that courses you’re taking the the connections you make are getting you there.

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      Easier said than done. At that age, with no professional experience, it is really hard to know what you want to do for the rest of your life.

      • @Zexks
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        No it isn’t. People just don’t think about it….like ever. It also requires being honest with yourself which is a too tall order for most.

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        there’s no law that says you need to do college at 18. i started at 26, and it would’ve been a waste before that. i hadn’t even discovered any learning passions until just a couple years before that.

        so maybe just avoid that problem like i did?

  • @TootSweet
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    Not always true. Sometimes you major in what you love, graduate, get a job doing cool stuff, (get fucked over by an asshole boss, change companies, kinda hate working there every day, find out through the grapevine the asshole fomer boss had been fired for being an asshole, return to the company you liked working at), well paid the whole time, and continue to love what you do so much you don’t get enough of it at work and do it more every evening and weekend as a hobby.

    But then, my experience is a) a bit dated (I graduated college before 2010) and b) most likely atypical.

  • @[email protected]
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    Don’t do what you enjoy as a career. It will ruin what you enjoy and leave you with nothing.

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    The degree itself was a door opener though, and college shouldn’t be job training anyway.