• did_you_find_violetsOP
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    disclaimer: any activity involving choking should not be taken lightly.

    a collar and leash is also way safer than a belt.

    • captainlezbian
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      Yeah, choking is the sort of thing people who do hook suspension may decide is outside their risk profile, but plenty of people will try it as their first kink act thinking it’s not that dangerous

    • Midnight Wolf
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      Well it just so happens that I have both of those items

      😳

    • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      Oh so good, you weren’t dead, contrary to earlier rumors.

      I suspected you were just having perhaps a bit too much fun in… some where in south east asia, right?

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    Please, no belts. Something that can be cut with scissors, and have said scissors on hand. Limbs (including heads) swell when cut-off from blood supply. Something that requires some degree of looseness to remove, like a belt, should never be used to restrain a limb, unless it’s being used as a tourniquet.

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      also don’t pull your head back! when I was twink enough to wear latex we all knew the copypasta about someone getting their neck snapped

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      To add: get some cheap trauma shears. They work better than normal scissors for cutting through stuff, and could handle a normal belt pretty handily (if that’s your thing, still shouldn’t use one tho)

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    You gotta choke the fuck out of her to get her going, just like my lawnmower

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    People show and accept love in different ways. She just needs to be be choked to feel loved.