Guilty as charged during much of my love life.
But then, I’m also a trained peer counselor, and have listened to people’s woes just to let them process as a fellow member of the mental health community, so I don’t do this only for women I fancy.
As a dude I’m pretty okay with this. My brain still pumps out the happy chemicals when women talk to me. If they can benefit as well then it’s a win-win. It doesn’t really matter if they are going to fuck me or not. Although that would certainly be nice too.
I don’t think random men want to fuck whatever is in that pfp
I’ll be honest, I’ll listen to anything because I’m nosy as fuck
Call me “the boss’ ass” cause of how nosy I be
I’m like a fuckin’ truffle.
Supposedly, this is a lot of the job of prostitutes now.
Although strangely, the specific example I’m reminded of is Manny in Grim Fandango luring the security guard to a back room, only for her to want to give him her life story.
Can confirm, but it’s worth noting that lots of non-prostitute women do this for the men in their life, too.
Read up on emotional labour ;-)
I’ll listen even if I don’t want to fuck you. I just like talking to people.
If simply listening provided real therapy, I have a couple of friends who would be the pinnacle of mental health.
“Listen”
I listen to everyone.
(I wanna fuck everyone)
Hello 😏
Same–we’re helping people!
Now kiss
As long as you would give them the same courtesy and don’t completely dominate the conversation then that’s pretty normal in 2026 I think.
