• Björn Tantau
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    461 month ago

    Yeah, the only time I actually heard that phrase in real life was at a transsexual gaming night, followed by a burst of laughter.

      • @[email protected]
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        181 month ago

        Did you just assume Gaming Night’s transness? Transsexual is a thing, and it’s distinct from transgender.

        • @[email protected]
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          91 month ago

          It’s not really that distinct, no. Not unless you’re transmed and believe pre and post op trans people need to divided from each other.

          Youre free to use whatever terms you’d like to use for yourself, but transsexual was how people referred to all transgender people until the term transgender took off in the late 90s.

        • Smorty [she/her]
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          81 month ago

          oh, then i am very sorri. i as genuinely not aware and assumed that it was an old-timey word. i apologize.

            • Lemminary
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              141 month ago

              It implies a sex change op which is quite invasive of people’s privacy. It’s also inaccurate for a lot of trans folks who may only change their gender expression and avoid the operation altogether, hence the adoption of transgender that has the right emphasis.

                • Lemminary
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                  21 month ago

                  What’s the issue?
                  It has the wrong implications.

                  Sorry, I wasn’t clear!

                  It also sounds lewd but there’s a similar debate about “queer” even though that one has been mostly reclaimed.

            • @Dragonborn3810
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              121 month ago

              Not op, but I was taught by one of my trans friends it was an old term and not very correct nowadays as it inferred being trans was something sexual and not just yknow, bring trans ig

        • @Droggelbecher
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          31 month ago

          Can you explain what it means to me? I’m nb and I’ve always disliked it because it tends to confuse people, making them think being trans is a sexuality.